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You did the heartfelt thing. I wouldn't overthink this. It can be many reasons why they haven't responded, and none of them is on you.
Appreciate your thoughts.
There’s also a lot of emotions attached to the role and company that they were let go of. They may not be ready to talk to their former employees. It could be feelings of embarrassment, remorse, anger, etc.
You did a great thing reaching out. Definitely give them some space but nothing wrong with reaching out in a few months if you truly want to connect with this person to let them know you want them in your network beyond the time you two were just coworkers.
Thank you.
I wouldn't worry about it rubbing the wrong way. It's a difficult time and they are likely still processing. I'd give it another few weeks and ask to hang out without mentioning the layoff. I would let them bring it up (if they even want to). Don't push any further. I don't think there is anything wrong with sending a heartfelt email btw, that's kind of you. Just respect their wish to not talk about it right now.
Appreciate the feedback. I’m really hoping for the best with this person.
I know as humans we tend to take things personally, but try not to this time. I'm sure that person appreciates your message. He or she has probably been so overwhelmed with trying to figure out life after this abrupt change, they probably haven't even checked emails.
Appreciate the response.
It was good of you to send a note.
Another thing you can do to help them, if you choose, is to write a LinkedIn recommendation.
I did that when I was laid off after more than 20 years in a newsroom. When I sent my final email out, I was so very appreciative of the responses.
I'm a tough cookie, but when my job search wasn't producing much, I sometimes went back and reread what my former co-workers had written. Each recommendation gave me a boost in several areas, which was most appreciated.
Nearly 20% of our newsroom was laid off that day. A layoff affects everyone in a different way. Being available if your former colleague gets in touch is another thing you can do to help.
I wish them well.
Don’t overthink it, I’m sure they are very wrapped up in their thoughts now and either haven’t read your email yet or read it and am just formulating/accepting what happened to them. You did your best!
Thank you.
It's perfectly normal for your colleague to take some time to respond. They may be going through a range of emotions, from shock and sadness to anger and uncertainty. Give them the space they need to process everything. You have a good heart, I'm sure you didn't do anything wrong at least.
Appreciate your response.
Really appreciate everyone’s feedback. It’s such a tricky situation to navigate. Wishing this person all the best.
You did what you could – it was thoughtful for you to do so. The fact is, however, that their lack of response is not about you. It's a good practice to remember this sentiment across most circumstances in life. Additionally, and please understand this statement is not meant to be hurtful ... but they do not owe you a response. Would it be nice if they said "thanks"? Certainly ... but they don't owe you a thanks.
Thank you; appreciate your perspective.
I was laid off a few weeks ago and just today decided I was ready to reach out to my friend and former boss that is still with the company. It is hard for them and I’m sure they appreciate you reaching out, they’re just working through their own feeling and maybe not sure how to respond to your message. Just give them a little time.
I’m so sorry to hear about your lay off. I really appreciate your perspective on my question.
I was laid off myself and to this day my manager never reached out to me and we were very close that hurt. At first people gave her the benefit of the doubt she’s probably hurt & sick about it but it’s been months. So I respect and love that you reached out to your former colleague, it’s a lot to digest so like everyone it’s not a you thing at all. Thank you for reaching out, they may not know what to say but it matters 100%!