Why does my husband keep initiating sex at 11:45pm when I’ve just gotten cozy and ready to fall asleep?

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flip the tables - you initiate at 9:00pm

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Really the only solution.

Honestly, I'm guilty of it. I'll just say being "pleased" before bed helps many of us have a greater night of sleep.

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Cause you probably seem busy or doing something then when you're both finally not doing anything it seems like the only good time to do it. I agree with the other guy, the best solution is to initiate it first earlier.

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Both of you should try earlier, or tell him that you don’t want to wait until you’re ready to fall asleep.

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I’ve had this conversation it helps for a month then he’s back at it

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