Working Moms

I love my work. I love my job. However, the company culture has gone downhill in the past year or so (I've been here 3.5 years). Loads of people are quitting. I've heard loads more will be quitting after bonuses in M… more

Am I the a-hole here? I’m on maternity leave, so actively taking care of my newborn all day. While on leave, I’ve been taking on the majority of household chores too. I’m also breastfeeding/pumping ar… more

Going on maternity leave in a few weeks. I received performance rating ‘sometimes meets’ which doesn’t reflect my work. I have gone beyond and above delivering all kpis on time and servicing clients. … more

It absolutely drives me up a wall when my MIL treats my husband as incapable of being a self sufficient human being. I'm not his 2nd mother. Stop treating me as such.

I am actively updating my resume and cover letter to return to work after taking the past 9 years off to focus on raising my kids. I have great experience prior to leaving the workforce, but I'm s… more

I am actively updating my resume and cover letter to return to work after taking the past 9 years off to focus on raising my kids. I have great experience prior to leaving the workforce, but I'm s… more

Best cars for two rear facing car seats. I was close to leasing an Audi Q5, but the car seats sacrificed the passenger space.

I’m going through a divorce and my son’s spring break is coming up. Because of all the stress I’m trying to take him (3yrs old) and my 82 year old father to an inclusive resort that offers kid activit… more

At what age did your kids stop using a stroller even on longer outings (i.e., Disney World, fairs, airports, etc)?

Moms, what SUVs are you driving?

I was in an accident monday, with my kid in the car so I’m looking at buying a bigger/safer vehicle.

How do you manage your velcro child?

My kid was a velcro baby from day 1. The classic never wants to be put down baby, crazy strong mom preference, turned into velcro toddler. On the daily, I can barely move… more

Working moms of 3 kids... how did you decide to have the 3rd kid? I know there's a ton of very person factors (finances, "village" etc.) but from the standpoint of working a demanding jo… more

PNC Bank just announced mandating 5-day return to work in office policy beginning in May 2026 for all employees.

I’ve been with my current company for several years, but I’m considering a change because my work–life balance has significantly deteriorated. I have a three-year-old son who is extremely energetic. He attends da… more

Sleep regression at 2 years? Sleep training is going out of the window coz now she isn’t just crying she is screaming mama and dada

What age did you potty train your girls ? We got a potty seat that she refuses to sit on ? She occasionally tells us that she has done.

Hello I need a container that can chill or heat Breast milk safely. I saw one on Amazon when I had my first baby and can't find it anymore. I remember it being on the pricy side but you could choo… more

Tell me if I am over reacting- 6 weeks post partum, my partner and I discuss that he needs to resume his job and first 6 months in his new role will be very demanding, and we plan a vacation at the en… more

Has anyone else felt like they’ve lost their “spark”? I returned to work a few months ago after having my 3rd, and I just don’t feel any joy or interest at work anymore. I cry most nights thinking of … more

I’m dumbstruck. Looking for guidance to stop me spiralling re.job loss. The company that I joined 6 months ago fired me after my pregnancy announcement and used th probationary period as a loophole. … more

I’m having so much anxiety entering my 11th busy season with a 3.5 YO and a 9 month old. How do you manage being so busy at work while being a mom? I love my job so much but absolutely hate how demand… more

Moms who kept kids home or had a nanny until real school started. Any regrets? Had you wished you put them in daycare instead? Like a good daycare.

Hi moms! Im due with my 2nd baby in early 2026 and this timeI want to make sure I have everything I need during and after labor to be comfortable. For example, a peri bottle, underwear, robe etc. What… more

Hi Everyone, what age did you teach your girl to wipe? Especially #2. My daughter is fully potty trained but don't know how to wipe her self. Maybe that's considered not fully trained then. An… more

Moms with sick kids - I need some advice. We recently found out my 6 month old will need surgery soon. She will be in the hospital for a week, and will require more advanced/hands on care for at least… more

I’m 8 weeks pregnant via IVF and have a 3-year-old son. My husband has been unemployed for almost 10 months, so I am the primary breadwinner. Our marriage has been unstable, with emotional and some physical abuse… more

Woke up with a fever this morning, I’m so disappointed. Would you quarantine yourself to hopefully keep your kids healthy even if it meant missing Christmas? It’s my youngest’s first Christmas I reall… more

ODD and silent adhd in 6 year old. Any tips to parent / how to navigate as a working mom? In OT.

For those who have been married awhile, post having kids, how do you and your husband stay connected? I feel my husband and I are in survival mode but we feel so disconnected and we both want to chang… more

For mamas that chose to exclusively pump, can you share why? No judgment, I’m just curious.

And to be clear, I’m not talking about situations where you had to pump because breastfeeding didn’t work out… more

What are you gifting your nanny for the holidays? We do guaranteed hours so we are already givning her 2 weeks. She gets 2 weeks PTO a year. does 1 week bonus sound good?

Has anyone moved to part-time? I’ve been considering reducing my schedule down to 4 days per week, but in consulting I’m afraid I’m going to end working the same, just for reduced pay. Has anyone succ… more

My MIL just told me I look for things to be wrong. I'm so sorry your granddaughter has acid reflux, a weak neck, and a tongue tie. I'll try not to advocate for my children next time. I'm b… more

Give me your tips for flying solo with baby. I'm planning to travel for a funeral this weekend.

I know I can check the car seat and stroller at the gate, though not looking forward to manhandling them i… more

It’s our first year with a child in daycare and we’ve been constantly sick since fall. It’s pushing me to the edge of my sanity. I can just about keep the plates spinning between work, household tasks… more

WWYD: In-laws are not respecting our requests around presents. They are over-giving and also have terrible timing, leading to melt downs and tantrums. What are things I can do that are in my control to reestablis… more

What age did you let your kids watch Disney movies? They love Disney music so much, so i let them watch Lion King and Frozen and my 4 y/o had nightmares after both.

My child’s kindergarten class is very clique-y already. Mine has friends in other classes and is friendly generally, so it’s not an issue but I don’t remember this growing up. Is this more common in t… more

Got laid off last month, no severance. I’m 5 months pregnant. Couple of people I used know need someone perm. I was expecting to have to freelance. When do tell them I’m pregnant? First Zoom interview… more