33M
Bengali
Working in Delloitte Hyderabad
Looking for early marriage

Moving to Philly Nov 1, just signed a lease in Queen Village. Coming from LA where I was part of a volleyball group and had a lot of options at the beach. Suggestions on making friends and being active (while still being respectful of covid rules & health of all)? 36 F

She doesn't know the real reason why I'm lukewarm about kids: I don't think she's matured enough. I'm trying to plan for retirement and a house, but all she wants is her next overseas vacation

I'm an engineer, and I feel like my manager is more of a friend than anything else. We talk about our personal lives, and I feel like it's hard to be completely honest with her when she's so casual with me. I don't want to lose our friendship, but I also need to be able to talk honestly with someone who has the power to help me grow professionally. Is there a way to have both?

This bowl has been quiet and I see partners commenting on odd posts around fishbowl so I figure you need more fodder: partners, did any of you have parents that travelled as much as you do?

My last therapist keeps coming up in my mind. I left her when I moved to a new area before COVID dug in and frankly it felt like leaving a girlfriend. She also disclosed in the final session that she was a member of AA and knew several of the people I occasionally discussed from the rooms. Her knowledge of the program certainly built trust with me early on, but it has been two years. I discussed it with my current therapist but she’s still in there. Any advice?

Did you ever have any issues with your family questioning what you do and saying it wasn't a "real job" ? They think being a social worker is fluffy and I should have just become an "actual doctor or psychiatrist"

Do you tell your boss you’re going through a breakup? I’m phoning it in and obviously going to be camera off for awhile.

Any book recommendations for grieving the death of an estranged parent?

What are some myths you all have heard to figure out if you’re having a boy or girl?

We have ESL students who speak languages like Mongolian that no one in our school speaks and can translate. How do I communicate with parents? How do I get them to feel more welcome/comfortable?

Do any female desis who are married take care of their own parents?

What does your spouse think of your job? Do they understand what you do?

AITA? If my SO of 1 year wants to get a dog, do I get an opinion? We don’t live together

I am a straight , but I kid you not…

I still think of my ex. It’s been 9 months since our breakup. He cheated on me and although I walked away and never looked back, I still wonder how life is treating him. I know I deserve better. Sigh.

My fiance is working on Axis bank in west bengal. I live in Bangalore. Our marriage is on December end. she will be shifting to Bangalore on January and has sent am email for transfer to Bangalore few times back. BUT not getting any positive response and even no one is replying to her emai.
Looking for suggestions here....

I hope my father dies before my mom. Otherwise he’d consider it my duty to drop my life & move home to cook & clean for him, like my mother does. My mom works full time but is expected to take care of all things in the house, as well as do the accounting for my father’s business. He’s helpless without her, & is a sexist asshole. (IE my mom sprained her wrist and has carpel tunnel but she’s still expected to wash his dishes and he refuses to just buy a dishwasher). Please God, let him die first.

Dads with older children: while raising your children, did your children prefer their moms over you? I know some will prefer dads over moms, but I assume majority of children out there will prefer their moms over dads… I have one child and it kinda hurts to see my child always preferring the mom over me. I know I shouldn’t feel this way, but I just do. How did you cope with such issue raising your children?

Working from home in customer support provides so much flexibility as a stay at home mom. I can take care of the home, my babies and work without feeling guilty ….talk about mutli-tasking!

SO said he couldn’t receive letters during Ranger School, but finding info online that I can send. Any insight? Maybe he doesn’t want the distraction?

Sr Associate - Product Management

What could be the salary range for this considering 2 Yoe.

If anyone is currently in this role, please dm

What is salary of Software engineer in Berlin for 4 years of experience

Hi Everyone, my YOE is 14 on VMware Products as an Administrative/Consultant/Architect...i have created an Express Entry profile for Canada , still no luck with interviews via Job Bank , LinkedIn and Indeed. I have opted to pay a VISA services firm for marketing my resume and apply for me. Was this a good option ?

Welcome to the NYC Cycling Bowl. We can use this to discuss all things NYC cycling; including preferred routes, meetups, shop recommendations, etc. Let’s try to use Borough tags when discussing geographically-specific topics.

Newbie here..with Nano Ledger S's on backorder through March, what's the best way to secure your coins? If it helps, I have some LTC, VEN, ICX, LSK, DRGN, and REQ. Thanks in advance

Ayo whose company just pulled up to Ladder in suites??

Oh man, another ATH, it really just keeps going it’s so crazy to witness

How much do analysts at a hedge fund make? Asking for a friend who’s thinking of transition post a few years in equity research.

What’s KPMG salary and bonus ranges for a Director in M&A group in NYC? Does MBA / CPA make a difference? I have both so prefer those ranges.

Hello fishes, does anyone know about 60 decibels and the work culture is ? An insight would be very helpful. Thanks in advance :)

I want to start an “only honk once” OHO campaign. Why do driver insist on honking numerous times, besides not controlling their anger and stress. Anyone think it could catch on? ✊ OHO ✊

I do things (late nights/weekends) that I don't think my managers/partner knows about since everything is running well - directly correlated with elected hours spent. Is it weird to bring this up?

LUNC- share opinions below

Not liking the fact it gets dark by 4PM

How much TCS pay for Germany on-site to C3A Technical Lead?

Hi Fishes, Please share this bowl with colleagues and friends. Thanks 🙏.