Any breadwinners here have any advice in “winning” a divorce with a dead beat husband? He is bleeding me dry and I am feeling so powerless. All I wanted was peace and freedom from him.

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I don’t. But just didn’t see anyone respond and wanted to send you warm wishes. That sounds awful, and I’m sorry this is happening to you. Make sure to do things to protect your mental health some even if it’s just a quick walk to clear your head when he invades your peace.

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