Anyone else? This is one of the things about my ADHD that makes work so difficult!

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Yes omg. Written in an email works so much better for me

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Same, but that is rarely ever the way I’m given assignments. It’s so bad I have to record EVERY file review meeting with the partner to refer back to for action items and details, etc.

Drives me absolutely insane.

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I 1000% feel this!!! But I know a lawyer bowl is a safe place to note that I want the meme corrected to "oral" so I can share it with my friends. 😂

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Me too! I’ve had partners get annoyed when I take notes as if I’m being rude. I literally won’t remember if I don’t. And if I make it look like I’m listening I am focused on appearing attentive and not on what’s being said.

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