Anyone wake up feeling like they having a quarter life crisis every two years? Woke up yesterday feeling young and wanting to go out; woke up today wanting to have a kid 🙄 wtf is going on? Normal?

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I wake up every other day wanting to shoot myself in the face...

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🙋🏽! I don't know which "instinct" to trust anymore... it's flaky as hell

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You are bipolar like me and the rest of the world.

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As it turns out, generalized descriptions to describe population trends don't match the messy reality of living. So yes, it is normal, and so we all struggle to find our way in an uncertain world (or I could just let F. Scott Fitzgerald do my talking and say "and so we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past.")

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^^P2 that's dark.. are you sure you are ok?

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^^P3 it depends on how you define "ok".

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It's normal to want contradictory things... just wait until you wake up 19 out of twenty mornings wanting to have a kid :) (or wait until the urge to have a kid passes... you do you)

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Doesn't quite stop. Am 40 with 2 kids. Now alternate between being partner/sr. leadership of company and housewife.

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That time of the month?

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Trigger: rare illness post birth

Just sharing that I was diagnosed with postpartum preeclampsia 3 days after giving birth despite not having risk factors or preeclampsia in my pregnancy. Sharing as I had absolutely no idea about this illness.

Main things to do are check your BP everyday at least the first ten days after you give birth, and go to hospital if it's very high (over 160/110). If you get severe headache or stomach ache then also be vigilant.

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Whenever I have to put slides together, I doubt myself a million times and it takes too long to make a single slide. I know I have Impostor Syndrome and depression, and the longer it takes to put a slide together, the harder it is to get it done. It’s like I have a phobia for doing the work, but it’s my job as a consultant 😔 I think I fear getting it wrong, but I’m wondering if anyone else has experienced this and how they have coped? Thanks, in advance 🙏🏻

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