Anyone work with white people who are too woke for their own good? I appreciate that they're trying but a team member said Black people instead of African American people or people of color in a meeting on Monday afternoon and she has literally apologized to me in person 3 separate times since then. I get I'm the only one who would have potentially been upset (?) by that but damn girl let it go idgaf!

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Honestly I prefer hearing Black People ( with a capital 'B') because I'm not African American but I'm still Black (immigrant parents from the Carribean) and I believe it's important to recognize everyone who fits into that. But that's me

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Same SC1, I feel this way even being African-American. I'm fine with either but I'll proudly be saying Black when people ask me "what are you" lmao.

Yes, but I'll take the over woke white person over the white person who still inserts their privilege and insists they know more in meetings and presentations particularly when working on projects that are geared towards Black, Hispanic or overall BIPoc audiences. But I also add that over woke person is 9 times out of 10 being performative. And when it gets down to it they will never create real equity or allow you to either.

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Ahaha I once had a client do this over zoom and they sent me an apology gift to the office and a note about how they're working on being an ally, and they understand if I no longer wanted to work with them. It was weird and unnecessary but I laughed about it for a long ass time.

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Yeah Op it's still very othering, but for the sake of their fragile white selves/my job security I smile extra big, say no worries, and put them on my "do not trust"list (they were probably on there anyway)

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