At my in-laws for Thanksgiving. While working in the kitchen with my MIL, my husband just her “I wish you would just communicate what you need instead of assuming I know and then being passive aggressive with me”. I guess the apple didn’t fall far from the tree on this one..

What do conservatives think of the new Texas law to investigate/jail parents with transgender kids?

How are all the lovely ladies doing today?! It's one of those days for me... Trying very hard with every breath to not check his profile and see what he's up to...
He broke up with me almost 2 months ago and it's just been death.
Some days very good and busy and powering through. Other days are hell. Pure hell

Any desi friends here got GC through a sibling? Is it faster than going through the EB2/EB3 way?

Bangalore vs Hyderabad vs Pune.

Which place out of these would you say is best suited for settling down?

I've been building a side project with my friend, but they're not putting in as much effort as I am. We've been friends since we entered college together, but it's starting to become too much. Should I talk to them about it?

How can I make friends in Chicago?

Would you marry someone if they had a lot of loans on their head?

On the topic of intimacy with partners… I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and the past year his libido has dropped to zero. Mostly due to work stress (he says). Whenever I try to initiate, he always shuts me down and says he’s not in the mood. I even touch him and he gets hard but stops me as soon as I try to unzip him. We went from once a week to maybe once a quarter.

I’ve talked to him about it and he says I should take care of myself. So frustrated. 😭😭

Family vacations are a must. The house is so much quieter when my wife takes the kids out of the country.

What are some signs that you should break up with your partner? It’s been my longest relationship in years, and she is my best friend, I love her and care about her (cont)

What do you do when your lifelong friends get married, have kids and disappear to the burbs or wherever and you’re single, lonely and gay?

Anyone in late 20s-early 30s in nyc looking for friends?

To those with an anxious attachment style and have trust issues due to past childhood trauma you’re still healing from: How do you keep yourself from thinking your significant other is going to cheat on you when she/he goes to a party or out while you’re miles away? I’ve been in therapy to help, and trying to distract myself but my anxiety is keeping it from working and don’t want to put that pressure on him because I’m trying to work on it.

Just found out my boyfriend of 3 months (talking stage was about 6 months before making it official) slept with his ex a couple times while we were talking. After we agreed to be exclusive. Without protection. I’m so crushed 😞

my sister died this morning. I posted about her in a past post. Alcohol addiction, liver failure and then it taxed the kidneys too much, she went into cardiac arrest at 9 am and they could not save her. She was 51. Sad day for sure. Feels odd that she is no longer here. I just wish she could have had a better future.

My SO is an alcohol abuser but has said he knows it’s a problem and would like to cut back or quit. Any suggestions or advice in how to help and cope with this. He becomes a different person when he drinks. I want to support him but don’t know how or where to start.

Hooked up with my ex today. Something about the holidays really tends to bring out my self-destructive tendencies.

Any book recommendations for grieving the death of an estranged parent?

Hello fishes,
Does anyone have any idea on how much time Amdocs take to mail the result of the technical interview?

Been in bed with full blown panic attack all day 🙁 Struggling to even breath

Accenture tech consultant vs KPMG Management consulting for top MBA exit in a few years? Which one will look better?

Has anyone felt guilty when there is a slow day? What is the least billable hour you had in a day?

Help me with 10 likes for DM!!

I got offer from Bosch for 2 wheeler ABS testing , How is the work in 2 wheeler ABS team any one have some idea? Please suggest

Best prep material for cissp?

Is there a need for freelance community managers?

Was shocked that there is no bowl for us. So thought I could maybe make a focal point for us to congregate

Let’s all pray for those that lost their life this week serving our country. Pray for their families.

Hi guys and gals.
What do you put to get noticed or an interview when they ask you to leave a message to the hiring. Aka
"Let the company know about your interest working there"

Thanks all

Hi Fishes..
Wanted to move career from FPnA to D365 Functional consultant/ Business analyst. Please suggest better ways
Also don't want to compromise on current salary of 15 LPA.
Just not sure can I retain my salary or will I have to compromise with a lower pay and where do I start with getting interview calls

Hi Everyone, Kindly consider it as a panic button.
I got an offer from an company in June 2022. I put my 90 days NP in TCS.
Now with only 20 days remaining, my Person of Contact infomed me that they're keeping my offer on hold and postponing it to 27th oct. They also told me that I should look for other offers as it is also not confirmed.
Only 17 days left on my notice. Any lead in Data Analyst role with 1.5 years of experience with SQL, Tableau, Excel, Python (Pandas) will be of great help.

I have recently given interview at Microsoft.
HR provided the feedback as I am not rejected bit not fit for the role so they have put me in talent plus pool. What should I expect next and does this mean that I may get the offer ?

Hi, I have a question ` I have been working at a saas startup for the past 4-months and not happy with their company culture. I would like to start looking for another job ~ Should I list that company on my resume?

1. Need some feedback how anyone proceed during HCL Technologies Discover portal login. It's showing me invalid login continuously and using forget password options, able to login one time by luck 2. BGV documents uploading links are routing to smart portal. Will it be the same credentials which is being used during discover portal login? Asked my recruiter HR, but no reply so far
3. Anywhere we need to accept the offer Letter?
HCL Technologies

Anyone willing to give a referral for IBM and Deloitte canada, I am a new grad and looking to start my career in consulting

How do new mothers especially first time moms deal with stress? My wife seems so stressed after having our baby 2 weeks ago and I’m unsure of how to help other than take care of the baby when I can. I went back to work and she’ll be a stay at home mom but I recognize that the baby is a lot to deal with. Any tips?

We’re supposed to leave for thanksgiving dinner in 20 min. MIL hasn’t showered yet, just started vacuuming, and told me the food we are bringing with us takes 45 min to bake… this is what it’s like being a cross-cultural family

As the German-American raised person spending the holidays in a Latinx household, I need a beer

On my way to spending a week at my in-laws… wish me luck

Hi, I am a single-parent with a 9 year old daughter. Is anyone else dealing with same gender sleepovers with sexual exploration occurring? Exploring as in my daughter says outright “I am going to kiss you,” to her bestie before bed. Then after 15 minutes of giggling in bed I go to tell them to be quiet and see my daughter’s bestie is showing her buttcheeks to my daughter. To top it off they start trying to tell me they are laughing because they are reading “belly laugh books for kids”. Help.