Because I have the dating experience of a child, met up with a guy three times this week and it was mutually awesome. Now he is MIA. Not ghosting, but too busy to hang. Legit?

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Three days in one week? Overkill. I don't see any one more than 2 and never days right next to each other except for special occasions.

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Yes relax. He's probably legitimately busy

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Thanks for calming the crazy, friends! Single life is new 😬

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Probably taking a step back or legit busy.

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Maybe he cancelled some things to hang out. I've definitely faced fatigue when I've done that many in one week. And that was a case where I was really into the her

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3 times in a week is a bit much. And if he agreed to randomly meet 3 times in the same week he may have been looking for something like casual sex. Especially if you met him on an app. As a guy, if I was interested in dating we wouldn't meet three times in the same week. If you wanted to I'd see it as a red flag.

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Depends on whether you did it or not.

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Did not do it

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Am I paranoid af?

So he's playing it cool now, giving space etc?

What city?

So is it safe to say 1-2x per week is the norm?

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