Do any of y'all just get on calls and feel like people are just speaking a totally different language? Adhd and autistic (and sometimes studied auditory processing disorder) and so often I just feel like I need a translator to understand wtf is going on. My work product is outstanding but meetings just kill me. I always feel like I'm a few beats behind bc
I spend so much effort decoding. Anyone in the same boat or am I just nuts?

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I am not an auditory learner so I gain nothing in meetingd

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This absolutely resonates. I record all my meetings. By going back and listening to the recording on my own, i am able to get a full understanding of what was being said

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I feel this.

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100% me. ADHD, Autism, and Auditory Processing Disorder here too. Closed captions on Teams (and Zoom and Webex) have been a lifesaver because it gives me a clue what is happening even if the captions aren’t spot on.

Same here

Yes yes x 100. Jargon and corporate speak and random internal acronyms especially kill me. I often have absolutely no idea what people are trying to say because they talk in Business Code to sound smarter.

When I’m in paralysis on meetings (which is like all the time) I cannot process anything being said, someone will explain things like 3 times and I just give up

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