First day of solo paternity leave - this is way harder than I thought! Wish my wife worked we Deloitte for the maternity leave!

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Good for you- it's really hard. By 4 months it's better. The equality your marriage will have from you appreciating how hard it is - invaluable!

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Thanks everyone! Did a month with my wife and now doing 3 months solo - definitely appreciate the struggle my wife went through AND I'm on easy mode compared to those first few months!

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You got this! Consulting is top notch prep for crying babies...I wish client problems had a defined solution set of {food, diaper, sleep, repeat}

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:) How is it going so far? Are you intending to take the entire 4 months?

They let you break it up like that? Didn't have to take 4 straight?

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