for this sober alcoholic?the worst sentence I hear at work when meeting vendors or freelancers is " we've met before"... I can never bring myself to ask when

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Just say “yeah people tell me I have a familiar face” warm and sweet.

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Make a joke out of it - “We did...I’m so sorry”. Will get a laugh out of people you saw while out as well as those you didn’t

I hear that all the time. But cause im old and a bazillion people know me and i forget Not just cause i get wasted at industry parties.

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