Has anyone else ever received responses from male colleagues like "I will work on this for you" or "we will get that done for you" as if they are doing a favor just for you, when really it's a task that's within their job description and is necessary for the business?

This type of response boggles my mind. For more context, I'm in Finance and talking with Operations staff - so maybe that is the disconnect.

I just can't imagine telling my coworker I will approve an invoice just for him. 😂

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Sometime you have to let it go for peace of mind and not overthink it.

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Shoot back that you would appreciate it if they did it for themselves as it is their job.

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As an ops person, it can mean so many things. It can mean that I’ll prioritize it for you despite having higher priority things on my list, it can mean that it’s also not my job but I’ll do it for you because I understand it’s important and the person actually responsible is incompetent or lazy, or I’m just typing the email quickly and didn’t mean anything by it.

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Frankly in some businesses it’s very hard to get operations to do anything for supporting functions. Since they are the money earners of the business they often don’t have any penalty or incentive to deal with accounting/finance. And yes, sounds like they want you to know that they are prioritizing your ask. Could be because of tremendous respect, or them just liking you…

So decide for yourself if you take it as a win (even if annoying), or you would rather say something which will cause them to put your request at the bottom of priority list.

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