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Do not be unequally yoked. And don’t forget the purpose of dating is to get married. Don’t fool around and deprive your future husband. This will be the father of your children. Find a guy who is invested in the church, not afraid of responsibility, and a committed, mature follower of Christ.
Im a little confused by what you mean this guy is a believer but isn’t; someone either is or isn’t, in the end. If you think he doesn’t know the fundamentals of the faith, then I would say he is not a believer yet.
I would not pursue it, it will very likely lead to heartbreak. I’m not saying this guy can’t become a believer, but you as a believer should not pursue dating someone who is not a believer.
It’s really up to you, but to me, it’s important to not only be with someone who believes in God but have the same value system. I was married to someone who was a Christian but they weren’t practicing and there were a more than a few values that weren’t aligned.
I don’t know if it’ll be good or not for you but it’ll be a lot more difficult to be with someone who does not have the same faith.
My analogy in these instance is- If we're both Christians, we can settle hard issues through the guidance of Scripture and prayer.
If the person is not a Christian, why would he/she want to listen to what the word of God says?
Well explained!
OP, sounds like a Luke warm Christian which Christ despises:
Luke 6:46 - "Why do you call me, 'Lord, Lord,' and do not do what I say?
Revelation 3:15-16 - I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were either one or the other! So, because you are lukewarm—neither hot nor cold—I am about to spit you out of my mouth.
It’s best to leave this man alone. I know it’s heartbreaking but it’ll be best for the both of you in the long run. He will see how serious you are with your faith. It may or may not make him question his own faith for the better and lean into God. Who knows.
I’ve heard about couples who are like this and most times that say we were the exception not the rule. Missionary dating sucks. You need a man that is on fire for the Lord. If it bothers you a little bit now it’ll bother you alot down the road.
Good people do not make it to eternal life with God in heaven, only born again believers do. God first, please research God's design for marriage and relationships before you try in your own strength, we were made to image and glorify God the perfect unity, love and harmony of the trinity. God's design requires God's instruction. Read the Word and PRAY for His wisdom let Holy Spirit guide you. 🤍
'Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.' -Matt 7:13-14
For context, I used to date an unbeliever when I myself was still developing HUGE mistake and waste of time. He was a good guy, professional and we were in love. But God showed me he was better as a friend not my disciple. I needed a man that could lead and disciple me and our future family with us ultimately purposed for the mission God's sent us all on: glorify/image/obey Him love Him FULLY and others.
Later I met my new husband who was a stronger more mature believer than me and who led me closer to Christ and the love we have is soo much more deep, pure, and freeing. Together we pray, serve in church teaching, and reflect God's love as often as we have the opportunity. God's graciousness saves me all the time from unwise decisions and He is our one and true groom ultimately we're all preparing ourselves for Him.
while i agree with the sentiment above in that it’s not wise to engage in any sort of romantic relationship with a person that isn’t a believer, that doesn’t also mean to cut him off from your life. be his friend, invite him to church, share your faith with him. as Christians we are called to go and make disciples of all nations (Matthew 28:19). so if he is interested in learning about your beliefs, share them!
there was a guy in my church that helped a woman he had an interest in to church, and she eventually became a Christian. he then waited a whole year to make sure that she was solid in her faith before trying to date her. i’m not saying you need to do the same exact thing as this other guy but i share this story to say that it is possible for a Godly and righteous relationship to happen from your situation.
Wow, this is a rare edge case. Don’t do this. Find a mature believer.