Have you ever started a new job and felt like you were walking into chaos? Three weeks in, I’m being screamed at for asking questions, told to "look it up" because there’s no clear guidance, and constantly compared to the former paralegal who apparently knew everything. Oh yeah, and I have 10 YOE, so not a brand-new paralegal at all. Is it just me, or should I be looking for an exit?

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Sounds like a huge red flag to me. No one should have to endure comparisons or lack of support, especially with your experience. It sounds like their chaos isn’t your problem to fix and your sanity comes first.

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A chaotic work environment doesn’t change unless the person/people causing the chaos leave. If the troublemakers stay, you have no option but to get an exit plan.

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That’s red flag 🚩 never seen comparison with previous ones…

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Run!!!!

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Sounds all too familiar. I stood firm, stuck it out, still here but "they" are not ! A big LOL! I'd say hang in there because everything happens for a reason. Wish you well in whatever you decide.

run and run fast!

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