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I'm a first year at a mid sized firm and I don't want to be a lawyer anymore. The problem is, I don't really know what to do. I don't really know what I like because I've spent most of my life in school working hard to get the job that I have now. Has anybody gone through this? How did you discover your passions? Were you then able to find a fulfilling career?

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I’m a 3rd year in capital markets and M&A. I felt the same thing. This led me to lateral. Which resolved 80 percent of my problems. It’s important to figure out the reasons you want to leave practice. Notably, for me, I had to realize that getting a hold of how to practice law in my area takes a couple of years. Once I got a hold of what I do, my happiness increase exponentially. Partially because it feels good to do good. Feels horrible to not do good. I am still looking for other potential jobs and investment opportunities but more so because working in general stinks

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Also look up Sarah Cottrell - lawyer turned coach who helps people leave law.

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thanks!

I dont mean to tell you what you want, but maybe give it more time. It might be that there are problems with your firm or your practice area, but those are fixable. Stay at the firm for a year and reassess. Transitioning out of a profession you've only been in for 6 months is pretty drastic, particularly because you've never actually worked before.

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Sorry, I should clarify: I clerked for a year before starting here, so... yeah, I haven't really done firm work before, but I didn't really like clerking either. But yeah, you're right, maybe a couple of more months might change my mind, idk.

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I felt that way towards the end of my first year. Turned out it was just the firm I was at. Lateraled and am so much happier and enjoying being a lawyer again.

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Follow Alex Su on LinkedIn. He’s got a few posts about finding your path when you realize working in a law firm is not for you.

But, I agree with what’s been posted here. Some times it’s just the firm or practice group or the partners you work with. I was in big law before. That job versus my current job couldn’t be more night and day. Working in house vs govt vs non profit vs firm is all very different.

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thanks!

I felt the same way at this time in the year during my first year. I was adamant that I didn’t want to be a lawyer. I switched groups and the feeling didn’t go away (it got stronger at first and I started reaching out to people in consulting) until about September. So it took a full year to start feeling like I was getting the hang of things and could do this and enjoy it. I’m so happy now that I switched groups and am more adjusted.

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For what it’s worth, I wanted to quit being a lawyer every day the first year of practice. And a lot of the second year. Not having any family or friends in law, I absolutely was not prepared for the reality of being a lawyer. Sometimes you just have to just power through and hope there’s something better ahead. It took me a small firm job, a mid-size firm job and a big law job before i finally found something that works for me. If there’s a chance switching firms will resolve this, my recommendation is do it asap. If you truly don’t think law is going to work, I’d look at your school network, identify people that took alternate routes and start reaching out. Good luck!

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thank you!

One thing I have tried to do is to carve out time to reflect on what I like and what I don’t, and what I would still like to get out of my current role (if anything). Your current job doesn’t have to be what you do forever, but there may be things that are worth sticking around for a bit to learn or try, or to allow you to meet people, get exposure to different clients/work, etc.

Reflecting helped me figure out that I wanted to lateral after 2 years because I wanted to practice a different type of law. Several years later, this approach is helping me strategize my next step, which may look different than what I’ve been doing, but certainly builds on where I’ve been.

FWIW, I worked with a coach, and one of the first things they asked me to do was to say what I liked and didn’t like about my current job. It really is a springboard into thinking creatively about what’s next.

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Could you please DM their name?

Assuming your mental health can withstand, I would try giving it a bit more time and/or changing practice groups. It’s certainly plausible to make an informed decision re: your career within less than a year, but you’re likely getting a lot thrown at you at once, which could cloud your thought process and undermine your ability to identify your source of unhappiness/dissatisfaction. Nevertheless, I have found it important to always realize that (i) we are in charge of our own careers; and, (ii) it’s never too late to embark on a new career path. Wish you the best on your journey!

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