Hey y’all! Curious everyone’s take on this. I find that I have a hard time not calling people out on BS. Whether it is partners, staff, whatever. Situations that although are unfair to me, me calling someone out on it probably makes things worse in relation to the visual of me. Thought hard about this and try to observe people and I honestly started questioning if it’s because of my background. I see that my black colleagues and me are more quick to call bs vs say my white colleagues. Cont..

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I feel the same way . I wonder if it’s just because we are tired of the BS as a whole 🤷🏾‍♀️… I literally can’t even stand any BS.

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I'd also add that some of the ability to call out seems to come with some combination of age, experience, and level of comfort in your position. The older guys that have been around the block seem to be better at it, or at least know when they can get away with it.

My white colleagues more often will just smile and respond that they are going to get it done, whether they do or not. This gives off that they are always helpful where as for me people may see me as combative.
If I was to give an example, I had a situation where a partner was scolding me saying my team was behind on delivering by a due date. I called them out and said that due date was never communicated to us so how can we be behind. I can see the anger and their turnaround response was just get it done. I feel like some other people would have respond more so like ohh I didn’t know were were behind. We will get right on it and work to deliver as soon as possible or something like that. Curious people’s thoughts here. Feel like not calling the bs creates error and inefficiency

You're right to speak up, probably right with what others would have done (because that's what the partners want to hear). The questions now are how do you react... (suggest the 'you didn't tell us, but we'll bust our ass to catch up anyway', and more importantly, how does the partner react... 1. forever hold it against you or 2. make a mental note to do things better.

Honestly, I'd like to think these guys are where they are because they're smart. Smart people know when they need to be better and adjust. Smarter people know when they have people under them that are reliable and those that are just bs.

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