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OP - I’m curious whether your work colleagues knew what was happening? Sometimes we try to juggle personal challenges and make it all work, when what we really need is to ask for and accept help just to get by... But if they did know, didn’t help or didn’t care then I suspect that’s not a team you wanted to be part of going forward anyway.
As for getting through this, take a breath and recognize that THOUSANDS of people before you have been in the same exact boat and have gone on to great careers and great companies (and some I’m sure would say they were better for it, or found a better fit, or discovered a path they hadn’t explored). You didn’t get here by accident. You have skills, knowledge and drive - put them to use on your hunt for the next opportunity and I’m confident you’ll land. Keep us posted and good luck!
Apply for UNEMPLOYMENT. RIGHT. NOW
I’m so sorry to hear about this. I can honestly feel for you and believe that employers often fail to understand that their staff are humans just as they are and fail to be empathetic.
Firms like to say that what makes the firm what it is are its people; however, when these sort of things happen and someone is struggling in their personal life, they don’t help and focus solely on profit. They make you feel as though you have to pick between family and a career. Managers speak as if you really are just a resource without a soul and end up sending emails making it seem like you’re just incompetent. What nonsense and it’s absolutely disgusting.
Before jumping back into the new role, please take care of yourself and make sure you’re in the right place mentally to jump right in. It’s not bad to take time to support your parent either, as this journey is something that they’re likely to be afraid of, but won’t admit it. Making sure you’re fine mentally is the best thing that you can do, as your mental health impacts the whole of you. My thoughts are with you and hoping your parent will have a speedy recovery. They’ll kick cancer in its disgusting butt! 😊
Is your personal stuff taken care of now? You need to address the root of the issue and work from there
My parent was diagnosed with cancer and he is doing better now! I am planning to take a couple of weeks off to decompress and going to hustle and grind for my next position!
Couldn’t have said it better, P1.
OP, shit happens. It’s about how you get up and get going again. Put what happened behind you and go conquer the world!
Good luck to you!
Curious who you worked for so I can be sure to avoid like the plague
D1 - I really enjoyed my time at Deloitte, and will reach out to my old PPDs and SMs soon! I think consulting is something I actually enjoy... sometimes HA!
Can you share more on what kind of roles you are looking for? We are always hiring
Good to hear OP- you need to take some time for yourself before jumping back in- like do you want to go back to consulting? Industry? Something completely else? School?