Hi folks , I am in need of some guidance, I am in talks with a girl via means of arranged marriage route , I think she is good for a relationship but she never initiates talks or chats , I am the only one who is initiating talks , though she does respond well to those but now I think I am done, efforts should be made both sides to initiate conversation,what are your thoughts, suggestions ?

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Before assuming anything, if you like this girl and can imagine to some extent having a future with her - continue talking.

Think of this from her perspective. Indian parents do not allow girls to be very open and candid in arrange marriage setting. They may have asked her to restrict any initiation for fear that she may come across as dominant , aggressive or otherwise. Give her the benefit of doubt.

Keep talking with her and once you feel comfortable, ask her why she never sends the first text at times or calls you out of the blue to talk. Or asks you to meet over the weekend or something else. She may have her reasons which when both of you are comfortable, she can share. Don’t push anything beyond the limits , don’t assume anything - else you may lose out on the possibility of having a beautiful life with someone you like.

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The same I thought of sharing, this is what is in my mind, this happens atleast in our families, like they always say be careful to a girl and not to talk more.

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shaadi ke baad you will wish she stops talking sometime atleast

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Girl all need attention validation they dont give this to a men i think you should move on this girl need drama toxicity in life

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To the author here - how did your search for a partner progress? Share an update brother 😃

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So good to hear that. Congratulations!! Wish you two a lot of luck and fun for your life together. Cheers!

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Same this happened to me.. I initiate the conversation for one week but then I stoped. Communication should be two way . . Stop stressing and wait for a week and get of the thing before it put you into depression

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