Hi guys....It's an off topic, I am feeling very low and alone,whoever I am thinking as a friend,they are deceiving me,has anybody come across this situation? if so how did you tackle? feeling so depressed , so confused with my life...don't know why it's happening with me.

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Leave wfh and go to office, you will be a lot happier.

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Writing is easier, find better friends, no point to stick with friends who are not real. Keep the circle small but tight.

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This is a new normal in this age. ☹️ Self love is more important nowadays. Keep yourself busy and occupied with your hobbies, even the funniest silliest thing is also fine. Keep yourself motivated. Play games, browse, watch series, read books, learn, explore, have family time and work hard with dedication without dependency (maintain professional bonds).
Rest life is awesome if we don't expect much but accept more whatever comes in our path.

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I think at the end of the day we all just have to learn to enjoy our own company. Going through this endless cycle of hoping someone will treat you right and recovering when they abandon you is exhausting :')

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I guess it happens with everyone? That's perfectly alright we feel alone at times and we have to be strong enough to face that. I went through the same. People will distance themselves, will ignore and may try to avoid....but that's the time when you get to know your real ones. Respect them, try to be there for them and leave the ones who were never yours. You should be happy that now you are getting closer to the reality.

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This has become normal these days. Just try to be self sufficient and don't depend on others for anything either physically or mentally.

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See we humans are born lonely and in order to fill that void of deep dissatisfaction and meaningless we create careers, business and make family. So indulge in something meaningful which can fill your time and can make you forget about your past and future. This is the only way believe me. No meditation or mindfulness matters unless our mind is impure with random thoughts. Hope this helps.

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Best way to get outta it is to write it out in a diary. The more you write it out, better you feel.

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Get married bro. That's what Indians do to get away with loneliness

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Take some leaves & have some free time or solo trip. It will change things to some extent or will give you some way.

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Try to enjoy loneliness 🙂

Are your by any chance mistaking colleagues as friends? If yes then you might need to update your definition of friendship.

Deceiving you in what sense, exactly?

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