Hi, has anyone found help from like a mental conditioning/behavioral coach?
I feel like I often come in my way because of behavioral issue.
Exhibit 1: I know this project is good for my financials but I won’t take it up because I don’t “like the work”
Exhibit 2: I know that apologizing will help us move forward but I won’t. Exhibit 3: sometimes, I say some stuff which I know back in my mind is not going to be taken well - but I still go ahead and say it. Exhibit 4: I procrastinate until last min

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Have you been tested for ADHD?

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Done

This is what therapy is for.

Thanks, my first couple of sessions where extremely underwhelming.

The fact that you are listing out your issues as exhibits in a public forum, may suggest that you need a therapist more.

Same

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