How do they leave you feeling most of the time?

I was trying to figure out what my personality trait was a few days ago. It’s depression, my personality trait aside from work is depression

Any openly T fish here? Or non binary fish that have undergone FTM top surgery?

The feeling of avoiding mines buried on the gorund is one I carry at all times, and I remember the fear and the anxiety at every step. I still feel like this today, like every decision I make will lead to disaster.

Any advise for wrist pinch pain? (Not looking for the surgery route). I also have an ergonomic keyboard.

I have a therapist that I see twice a month and it has helped me to some extent. I feel like I’m in a general plateau. I feel like we are going through some repetitive themes that I see and understand. I have high functioning depression and I’m going through the “and what?” Phase of it all. Is this common? How do you move on?

What are ways to deal with high latency mricroservice in a given region. Given that it's Cpu utilization is not exhausted.. So no vertical scaling ???

Hi Fishies. Im 31 yrs old,spouse 33 yrs old. We are going with IVF due to male factor. Today we got PGT results from CCRM Boston. Among 7 embryos, 5 came normal. 1- 5AA(male), 1-5AA(female),1-4BB(tier2,female),1-4AA(tier1,female), 1-4AA(tier 1, male). What is the best embryo among them? This is my first IVF. And little nervous as well. What could be the reasons if the embryo is not implanted ? Is it something with to do with me? Do we need to do anything from our side, like acupuncture ?

Ugh, is that time of year again! Does anyone have any advice on how to handle "friends" and family members who spout conspiracy theories to avoid getting the flu shot

Best age to freeze my eggs? I’m 30. Is it too early?

Can anyone offer advice for helping with adderall side effects? I was diagnosed a few months ago and I am new to medication. I have been taking 20 mg xr in the morning but have a terrible crash around 2/3pm each day where I just get very very tired. Doctor recommended 10mg ir mid day to combat but I still experience pretty severe fatigue as a side effect. Just wondering if anyone has found any natural strategies to cope or mitigate. Thanks!

Single 24 year old here. Recently joined Hinge. I am barely getting any activity. I'm a former OKCupid user and I always got something there. Do people not use Hinge or is there something wrong with me? I'm a fit average height guy and I am not ugly. Looking for LTR especially now in the time of Corona. Didn't bother with human interaction before tbh but this loneliness is creeping up. 😔

where my canadians at? how strict is covid there? my friend is in toronto for work and the hotel found out he has covid. now they’re locking him in his room. is that legal? if so, what’s the protocol to break quarantine? hotel wouldn’t answer 🫠

Anyone know of any body doubling apps? On my worst days, I wish I had someone to do this with.

2020 and this first full week of 2021 were the pushes I needed to finally get a therapist. How are y'all holding up?

What's the biggest piece of junk science that you think is commonly accepted as true. Mine has to be that intermittent fasting will help you lose weight and become more productive.

Born in US and have always been proud to be American, but this 4th of July I don’t feel the same. We have a 🤡 as President, completely failed response to the Coronavirus, banned from entering Europe, and racial tensions and divisions all around. We are the laughingstock of the world. Anyone else feel the same way?

I am shocked at how many people are unwilling to wear a mask. Are people really that selfish?

Hi all, any recommendations on a place in Dallas I can get an assessment and also purchase running shoes at the same place.

Girlfriend has very obvious high functioning anxiety and body image issues that she admits but thinks she doesn’t need therapy or medication and that reading self-help books will help her. It’s not changing in the last several years and it’s impacting our relationship. Anyone have experience with their SO dealing with untreated anxiety? I know I can’t control her but would like to express my feelings without sending her into a spiral. For context, I’ve been in therapy for 12 months and medicated

Can we buy out notice period in Infosys

Is it mandatory to serve 90 days notice period?

What is Chicago 190K base equivalents in Bay Area?

What certifications are good for technical project manager? I was thinking to start with PSM and PSPO and then move to ITIL, ITSM. Not sure about this though. Not planning to do PMP as I think it’s more waterfall focused. Was also thinking about AWS. Any other certifications recommended?

Hey fishes,
Has anyone ever been ghosted after an interview?
I had a recent experience been a week since the interview and my mails and calls to know the status of the interview are not returned. What can I do to in this situation?

Hi fellow fish need some advice.

I'm planning a wedding and wondering if I should apply for new credit cards to maximize on points. If so, wondering what your recommendations are and or if there are new cards out there I haven't heard of yet. For context I probably have another 20k+ in expenses to pay still and my current cards are:

CSP
Marriott Bonvoy Boundless
Citi double cash
Random card (used to be uber)

My problem with this bowl is it makes me want one of each kind of cat I see here and I have neither the space nor the budget!

I have submitted the BGV details on the link shared by HR.
When can I expect the salary discussion with HRs?
Are they really listen about the salary we are asking.
How long will it take to get the offer letter from now?

I would think Miami, LA, Chicago, NYC. Anyone attend the ALPFA convention?

Happy Sunday fishes

Please anyone guide how to switch to Consulting and Strategy roles in big 4, Accenture consulting etc. I'm currently working as a consultant with 1.5 yoe after mba (total 3.5).

Any strategies/interview preparation suggestions from all the consulting fishes here 🙂 Deloitte USI Deloitte India EY KPMG PwC India Accenture India

Does anyone know if insight has kicked off?

Currently an EM at McKinsey, joined as a lateral hire after 6yrs in consulting (strategy boutique) and a short stint at a lesser known PE firm. What prospects would I have pivoting back to PE?

Anyone from Bain here?
Could you please help me check if the job Specialist, CRM(Job Id-2021-5637) has been closed or is it still open l. Also this would be great if anyone can refer me for this role.

Does anyone recall what senior consultant utilization targets are at Deloitte?

How much does Gartner offer for the role of Manager (Data and Analytics)

Yoe-4.8
Current CTC-26

Hi Folks, Hope you are doing well. I am going to Join Telstra as a Data Engineer next week on 12th December.

Can anyone give me insights on the following of Telstra.


1. WLB
2. Career Growth and Learning Opportunities
3. Hike %

Thanks in advance

Have you guys ever suspected someone on your team was involved with insider trading? Or do you just mind your own business 😅

If I have to fly next week for business, do I have to remove mask/face shield for security check?

Do you ever buy bottles to hold/age them and resell?

How many days are you in the office?

If anyone has any questions, comments, etc (doesn’t have to be from WNRS), please post. 💜

Not sure if this is okay to ask: anyone have experience refinancing a car loan? Having a difficult time getting a copy of the title from my current lender (so the new lender can pay it off) and I’m not sure if I have any other options.

Reminder Post:

Apologize for your mistakes, not your feelings.

Day 27 of 31: I miss my wife.
(We're not separated or anything. I've been on an extended work/family obligations trip).

Don’t manage their behavior. Manage your expectations.