How do you draw boundaries with coworkers?

One coworker is often asking me if I have permission to do things I am doing or second guessing me. Nothing about me screams rule breaker. So, I am not sure why this is a reoccurring theme. I am practicing within my scope and assigned duties, and explained it a few times. My boss is knowledgeable of my work, and granted permission for anything new I've initiated. I would like a polite way to end this line of questioning.

My ASM is lazy and is incapable of doing the easiest basic tasks with recruitment. She receives all my end of day updates, is cc’d on all emails, makes me fill out 5 repetitive excel/smart sheet, and joins all my meetings but she still wants to call having me 5x daily about updates. I’m always the one to go to if other recruiters fail to meet client deadlines and cleaning up recruiters mistakes. How do I even handle this to begin with?

Building out a new function at my company, top 15 bank in the US, and scheduled a 90 minute meeting last week for today. Invite included an agenda and a teams link to the document we would be reviewing. Also asked for attendees to review ahead. 20 minutes in, my co-worker exclaims while I’m mi-sentence we should meet Thurs. after having a chance to review content… WHAT?! What should I have done in that situation?

Got braids. You'd think I literally got a face transplant from how shook my coworkers are. I would say over 10 people have stopped me to ask about them or comment on them and I've been at work for maybe 2 1/2 hours. It's all been positive, but am I wrong for still finding it annoying? They don't lose their minds when Sarah gets bangs or whatever so I wish they could keep that same energy.

Performance review is this week & boss already primed me (trice) abt a time mgmt/prioritization improve plan. I can’t begin to express (but attempt to in comment👇) how wildly out of context this fbk comes considering this flaming 💩 dumpster 🔥 of a workplace situation. Advice: - How do I get through BS mtg w/out hitting mgr w/a R/antiwork-style ✌🏻🖕🏻”bye Felicia”?! Ps. I’m an f’ing adult & welcome fdbk when it’s even mildly in touch w reality.

Hi there!!

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I just want to say that I'm queer and married, in a Cis-hetero passing relationship 🤭

Do we have to talk about dating like all the time?

Can't we talk about other stuff? Like promoting THE AGENDA (jk)

No, but FR let's talk about being open and accepted in the workplace? How did you do that? How (un) friendly is the work environment?

Thankyaaaaaaaalll 😘😘😘

This is the third straight weekend my director has drunk texted me? 🙄 Ignore?

My old employer asked me if I wanted to come back to the company as a manager. The pay will likely be much better and the position holds more responsibility than I’ve had before, so overall it would be a step up. The issue is I left the company because of an abusive manager who constantly put me down and made me feel like I wasn’t doing anything right. If I come back I’d be working under her again. I’m torn because the opportunity is great but the stress was awful. Continued in comments…

Ladies, do you ever correct students when they write your name as "Mrs"? Do you care? 😂

Describe the most annoying/awkward Partner in your office and what do they do that is annoying?

I am seriously worried. I am doing my co-op and my supervisor is not giving me an easy time. I am trying to do my best even with very little direction and this supervisor constantly harassing my about things like her not being able to use google meet or to remember passwords. I feel bullied and very anxious. I am afraid she can jeopardize my visa with a bad evaluation. I have been working at midnight, on Sunday mornings but I am human, I make mistakes, she just blames me instead of teaching.

I am so sick and fed up with some of the older clients at my job. I know it's my responsibility to take care of them, but they're just so sexist sometimes.

I’m doing a presentation on coming out in the workplace and creating an environment that champions diversity. What are best practices by your coworkers that have helped you or you have observed?

At what point do you fire a client? I have a 49 yr old client w/drawing $50K out of a $72K IRA (trad) to “pay off her home”, a move I completely disagree with/advise against.

“At dinner John (client) said I have nice legs, grabbed my thigh, put his arm around me & invited me to his hotel. Seems inappropriate.” Boss: “Well we won’t be taking him to dinner again this year”🤯

If you could ask a partner of your firm any question anonymously, what would you ask?

Giving notice tomorrow. Accepted another offer. Nervous to tell my boss because I know I’ll be leaving them screwed but I’m miserable. Love my team. The client is stupid and the work is soul crushingly uncreative. But still feel guilty :(

I currently have my EAD based on my OPT with an addition 2 year renewal. I have also submitted a marriage based GC application in Nov 2021, did my biometrics currently waiting on my interview. I have an offer from a tech company and want to leave my current employer. I am worried if I tell my upcoming employer about being currently on OPT they will freak out and take back their offer even doh I can work and don’t need their sponsorship.

Do I have to tell ? Has anyone experience this before?

I just asked the partner if he got a haircut because his hair looks nice 🥴 why am i so cringe?? I swear I don’t know how to act around the partners lmao. Does this happen to anyone else or just me?

Hi All,

Currently I'm serving Notice period
LWD: 13 December
Yoe : 2 years
Skill set: Java, Spring Boot, Microservices, Mybatis, PostgreSQL, Rest APIs, keycloak, spring cloud gateway
Would any one please refer me if any suitable opportunity is available.

What is the salary range for Sr. BA/Product Owner with secret clearance and 10+yr experience in Ottawa, ON.
Contract or full-time

Quick one fishes, do floor plans typically include the en suit bathrooms? Currently on an aggressive flat hunt so trying to size the rooms to know which to eliminate from the inspection list.

Feel free to ask any personal finance related questions here, from equity investment to CC offers. There’s nothing called silly questions, we have some excellent peers in the group to answer it.

Does anyone here have any experience working as a White House Correspondent?

Hello,

Can someone please refer for SAP BASIS/Hana in Infosys?
YOE : 6.4
Notice period : 15 days
Preferred location : Bangalore

Thanks

Is Phenomenon really still that awful? Shocked by the reviews.

Anyone know who illustrated the Seamless subway ads?

So, who thinks they‘ll be going back into the office this year?

Is it true that Recruiters and ECDs don’t consider creatives with Healthcare / Pharma experience when they apply for Consumer jobs? I have lots of Consumer experience (in my country) and I’m currently working in Pharma (in NYC), cause you know... I need to pay my bills. I’d like to go back to Consumer. I’d really appreciate your objective feedback.

How has your experience been starting a new job during the global pandemic?

Hi Fishes, Welcome to the data engineering Hive. Since we are growing it will be great if we can start with a brief introduction with this this thread. Mine is as follows

Company :- Harman international
YOE :- 6
tech :- AWS, Spark, Hadoop, airflow , Kafka , python , informatica, oracle, plsql ,sql

Military officer with 9.5 years of experience in financial management (FP&A and project finance) and leading cross functional teams, leaving Active Duty and staying around the DC area. Trying to get a good gauge of what would be a reasonable level (I.e analyst, manager, sr. manager) and compensation (salary and any other STI/LTIs) to expect.

I am depressed because I am getting paid 15k less than the person who I am filling in for while she is on leave. I am still doing my job on top of that. I don’t know how to address this with my boss.

Hello Connection,
Please Do not ignore this post .
My sister is looking for a job . She is BE graduate and well trained in SQL, manual testing and Java from recognised organization for 5 Months. kindly let me know if you have any opportunities.
She is struggling a lot , applying for 100s of jobs on daily basis but not getting response from anyone. Please help.
Hoping for positive response 🤞
Thanks in Advance!!

Can anyone having any idea what will be the CTC range of mindtree for C4 grade with 9.4 YOE. And how much joining bonus can be claimed?

Hi ,

Can anyone please help to complete Mandatory trainings for PWC

Hello! I’m currently a Administrative assistant now working at a major medical system in Baltimore. I’ve previously worked for 10 years as a medical assistant in a variety of specialties and primary care. Lately, I’ve been feeling a bit stuck as to my next step. Part of me want to go into management, another part is saying go get your RN, and the other is saying go into Social Work. I’m all over the place. Any ideas? And how would I be able to cross over to management?

Does anyone know what a chief sonographer should make? Managing 15 employees and 4 locations?

Can I get 15 likes so I can DM please!!??

Any administrative assistants currently working at Molina healthcare right now??
I have questions…

I’ve been a nursing assistant for 35 yrs I just got a new job as a Lead care manager working from home but this job is not what I expected I want to find a new job working in a hospital or doctors office as a receptionist or administrative assistant or something but I have little experience does anyone have any ideas they can help me with please thank you

Hourly pay rate

Any administrators looking to move facilities or jobs? My company is hiring administrators, if you live in NJ or even close to and want to know more please dm me.

I am interviewing for a clinical specialist position with Haemonetics. Does anyone have any experience working for them?

I have worked as a counselor in private practice with a master's level degree. Finishing my Psy.D. dissertation. Looking for a licensed psychologist to sign off on my clinical hours. Anyone willing to work with me remotely for TX licensure? I am willing to pay for the supervision hours.

Hello, I’m about 3 and a half years as a clinical data manager. Does anyone have any advice in how I can progress my career?

Any dietitians here? Recently moved to Dallas/Fort Worth area, wondering what the average salary is. Thanks!

I’m a newer registered nurse (2 years) and want to get into remote work. I keep getting denied due to lack of experience but to even get the job I have now (case manager) the company knew one of my family members and they gave me a chance to interview because of that. For these remote companies where I don’t have connections how can I transition over?

I’m trying to get a job as a pharmacist at bcbs. Anyone ever worked there or have experience there? Any tips on how I could make my resume stand out for them?

What’s a typical salary for a Director of Operations in the NYC area?

What's next after healthcare for you all?

Any remote, part time jobs in healthcare with a BS? Already have a full time, just need some extra cha Ching

Going to an office to meet the team and see the office after being offered a position. After much thought I think it is best to stay at my current position for now. How do I go about declining an offer/ask for a day to think about it?

Let's say you work remotely full time in private/group practice. Mental health or Wellness.
What's your maximum client load for a week? 20? 30? ... 10?