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Well, I had to quickly figure out how to maintain a healthy work/life balance. I was working way too many hours and really neglecting my personal life. As you can imagine, my wife was not thrilled. I set some boundaries and things improved at home. Glad I made the changes. Love this job but love my family too.

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Well if I have some family events, I let those in the deals know asap and they have honestly always been more than understanding working around those commitments. Try to not check emails at nights, weekends. sure you can send “received” confirmation messages but 99% of the time, they can wait until the morning of the next business day.

Lol it's you, isn't it? ;) I'm not married (yet), but I'm getting married soon. I'm curious to hear about the challenges others have faced.

Yes, but it’s partially due to my handling of stress and how I let it seep into my personal life. I’m working on it

Awareness is the main initial step. Best of luck!

What marriage?

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