I (first year) need the crowds view:
“Big deal” partner emails 2 partners (me cc’d) asking for a call. Having had trouble with the conference line, I send around a zoom link. The call starts, the 2 partners and I are on zoom. “big deal” partner calls me, yells that zoom link isn’t working, berates me, opens a conference line, tells me off in front of the other partners (I “wasted their time”). Is his behaviour warranted?

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No, it’s ridiculous—but that won’t make it stop. He’s a big partner, you’re a first year— you bite your tongue and apologize and say you’ll be sure to send conference lines only to him going forward. A lot of this job is managing people’s very immature reactions, but this guy sounds especially childish and the other partners seem to, at best, allow it to continue. Try to find other teams—maybe it’s a blessing this happened, so now you can avoid each other… good luck!

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This. Unfortunately, you often have to learn the hard way who is bad to work for.

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Not okay. At all. Other partners should have said something, even if it was just to calm “big deal” partner down.

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Not your fault the “big deal” partner is incompetent and is taking his impotence out on you.

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No. He’s an ass.

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