First year staff and I think this job is making my depression come back. I find no meaning whatsoever in what I do and just want to cry every morning thinking of going to work.

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I have not found meaning in what I do for 30 years. I am finally doing something about it. Don’t wait as long as I did. Life is much too short

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Busy season will be over soon . Try to schedule things for you to look forward to help you cope now. Maybe go for a massage after work. Take a deep breath and tell yourself you can get through it. In meantime consider whether a small less stressful public accounting or corporate position might be better fit. Good luck - you can get through it!

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That’s so sweet! Thanks! Yeah I could definitely use a massage. As far as a less stressful job, I may jump to an entirely different career, who knows :)

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I feel the same way. If you’re not finding meaning in what you do it’s time to make the change. It’s taken me while to accept it and figure out next steps, but sometimes you just have to make the jump. Life is too short! I plan on jumping into something completely different too!

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