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'An Empirical Analysis of Racial Differences in Use of Police Force' by Roland Fryer
Link to study:
https://scholar.harvard.edu/fryer/publications/empirical-analysis-racial-differences-police-use-force
Some bullets:
- Blacks 53% more likely to experience any use of force relative to 15% for whites
- All controls available, officers 46.6% less likely to discharge firearms before being attacked if suspect is black.
- Black officers are more likely to shoot unarmed whites, relative to white officers.
- Blacks are 21% less likely to report voluntary interaction with police than whites.
Anyone witnessed these protests first hand?
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Who cares man
As a fish said above, you’ll never stop a guy from looking at porn. (Many girls do too) . If you are holding out for the man that doesn’t on occasion “take matters into his own hand”, then you will be lonely.
It DOES NOT mean he doesn’t love you, or that you are unattractive, or bad in bed, etc. He cares about you and still loves the intimate times. It’s just that men have an unstoppable desire to just rub it out.
When I was much younger, an older relative took me aside and gave some very good advice. He said to me, “there are two types of people in this word - those that openly admit to jerking off - and liars!”.
Sooo true !! 100 percent !
Start your own page, when he stumbles upon it, you’ll have him cornered!
You can't stop a guy from looking at porn, it'll never happen so I don't suggest you force that stance.
False and sad that this is your reaponse.
Ask him about it. Learn what he finds exciting about what he’s watching and bring it into your bedroom.
If my SO made me uncomfortable and he wouldn’t stop after having a conversation. I would just plan my exit.
PWC 1 & 2, really bad answers. If this couple is exclusive, then they’re exclusive. They’re not seeing anybody else, that includes crap like only fans. To somebody’s earlier point if you’re only boyfriend girlfriend, you’re not exclusive, you can go out and do whatever you want, but this couple moved in together. OP, I would ask your boyfriend what he thinks that definition means just as a conversation starter. You may find out his definition does not fit yours. 🚩🚩🚩
No, bf and gf means exclusive
Saying it’s not is a red flag
to SD1’s point, most men and even some women struggle with not watching pornography (aka porn addiction).
But if you want exclusivity, why not marry? In bf/gf relationship, there’s no commitment and you can walk away anytime you want (perk/curse depending on how you look at it)
maybe to you it isn’t. For others it’s not a separate issue which is why it bothers them
Maybe look inward as to why this bothers you. I’m female and I like porn (wouldn’t pay for it). I don’t care what my spouse watches or looks at because I know where they sleep. But, if you really aren’t comfortable with it and he won’t stop, you have a difficult decision to make.
https://youtu.be/bVB1pTb-3Tg
I’d be done with you for digging through my phone
If you said you would leave, then leave. A porn addiction is not to be taken lightly.
Porn is damaging to the brain and it's cheating and it funds sex-trafficking
It’s an “easy” seratonin release and makes future releases (pun intended) more difficult to attain. It’s like a drug addiction that starts with a small amount and then needs more and more to get the same feeling.
I as married for 20 years. Ten years into it I discovered my hubby had been doing this. It hurts! We would argue about it and he’d stop but soon was on them again. Into our 18th year he started secretly chatting an “X” up. Long story short. They are now together and I’m left with never trusting another man. There are other reasons but this is the topic here.
For me it would be the paying for it, like invest that money instead homeboy and retire a couple years earlier
OP, I think this is more of a YOU issue than his. He tried to accommodate your request and failed. Don’t take it out on him. Instead, explore why that bothers you so much or perhaps be more secure in yourself and your relationship.
You should talk to him and hold true to your boundaries