I was recently acquainted with a beautiful officer at work. Can I as a civilian hook up with her? Please advise, thanks!

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You can do anything if you don't get caught ;)

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If you're not enlisted, then I believe it's okay on paper, but just know she might not be as comfortable doing so regardless. Some people don't enjoy mixing work and pleasure

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Of course, there is no problem with that.

I am sure that yes, the important thing is that if they formalize a relationship, this must be notified to your superiors and her superiors.

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