If you could go back and tell yourself one thing at the start of your career, what would it be? I think I would tell myself that prioritizing my mental health is more important than any task or deadline. There will always be more I can do, but that doesn’t mean that I have to do it all. I’d love to hear what other tidbits of wisdom everyone has!

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So true!! It really all is! No one is going to die if some things have to wait.

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