I’m catching feelings for a guy I’m sexting. I knew going in that I didn’t want anything serious. But, he’s so good looking and smart and as I’m getting to know his personality I’m starting to catch feelings. He’s a guy and I’m assuming that he just sees this as a transactional thing I’m sure? So maybe I just cut my losses and move on before I get too deep?

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Are you real good at sexting?

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You’re making an awful lot of assumptions. Why not just talk to him about it?

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HA!

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I mean dun drop de dude juss cuz he a dude 🔨🐣🍗

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Decent odds homeboy is smashing regularly so…

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Damn

I’m in the same boat. Solidarity. 🫡

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He will not take you seriously girl after sexting. Been there done that

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My wife and I started our relation as purely f*ck buddies.

We even had the “hey I don’t want to lead you on thinking this may go somewhere, I’m going to make some selfish decisions in the coming future, so if that’s a problem, I get it” and her response was “we got a good thing going, don’t make it weird”

We have been together 6 years and married just over a year … I get it.

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Maybe a mix of the 2, you spend so much time together, sex leads to spontaneous hang outs, leads to dates, leads to the real talk.

Candidly, I started to have feelings for her when she responded like that.

Are you sexing as well or just sexting?

It's easy to count your losses and move on then if you actually haven't met and probably never will...

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Is he available or hitched? Don’t get into a mess of emotions if this is supposed to be a fling.

Sorry not sorry but he is multi tasking

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💁🏾‍♀️ you are obvi screwed. Try to collect all your feelings from your situation-ship. I had this low key I didn’t actually like him. Because when he told me he like me back I was so mad. I like the idea of him and I just wanted to be his friend after that but I guess I was just too hot to handle for an platonic relationship but anyways yeah just catch yourself before you drown.

Why even bother doing things half-heartedly? If you’re gonna dip your toes in the pool, you might as well go for a swim too… should have gone all the way and dated him to begin with

I would just enjoy the ride while it lasts.

So, how good are you at sexting? 👀

Did you smash first and are now just sexting? Have you even met IRL before?

If he is too far away, better not catch feelings..

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