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Hi guys ,
I am in a US project in Accenture.We have long calls in the night timings. My other teammate has backed out saying she won't attend any calls as she got some medical condition so she won't attend long calls which extend till 9:30.Other teammate is a junior.The managers are expecting me to join all the calls.No help I am getting. And they all being Tamil, I think some partiality is going on between them.Even our onsite lead is of no use.She expects me to attend long calls.
What should I do .pls suggest?
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My post is for a lot of folks here who complain about managers not budging to negotiations and not offering package ,what you are expecting.I have one thing to say,there are lot of ibm employees who moved to kyndryl. Inspite of lot of contributions they are earning meagre salary.Now do you expect these people to hire you for more package most of time the package you are demanding is more than what these managers draw. So pls do not look at kyndryl as any other startup.Thanks.
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I set a boundary around talking about my personal life. It was really awkward at first but I tried to remember boundaries are to protect me not to enforce on someone else. If I keep my side of the street clean, eventually the rest will be figured out.
Yes, in several instances. It's not easy at first, but once you get used to it, it's a game changer. I'm glad you're reading that book. You'll have so much more peace.
I need to read this book because I am not going to lie....I am HORRIBLE at setting boundaries.
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Me too!
I am also bad at setting boundaries so will def give this book a try! Do you all feel that potentially having a toxic work environment could be related to being bad at setting boundaries or do you any of you feel it comes from within?
An Obliger is someone who depends on external accountability essentially most people pleasers who have a fear of letting people down. Obligers thrive when others rely on them but struggle to do things that make themselves happy. Obligers Rebellion is when an Obliger gets tired of the constant need to meet others expectations and abruptly stop whether it be as simple as coming to work late or quitting a job, a friendship, etc.
I think a lot of us who have issues setting boundaries are probably Obligers.
I am horrendous at setting boundaries. It doen't come easy to me due to my family background and it's made my life pretty difficult at work. I am trying to be mire assertive and not be such a doormat, but it's definitely a work in progress!