Interviewing with a large company. General Counsel is the same ethnicity as me and is my dad's age. First time I'm seeing a GC of a large company of my ethnicity and my dad's age. Interview went well and we just talked about random things and it felt like I was talking to one of my dad's friends. I felt comfortable and at ease. We had similar childhoods and upbringing and talked about that.

Is this how white folks feel all the time?

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I imagine for white people, it's sort of like seeing white people in superhero movies. They see representation all the time, so it isn't necessarily exciting to see another white superhero. But for POC, we don't get to see it all the time, so when it happens, it feels special. I remember attending a CLE about diversity in the legal field presented by a POC who was a partner at a big law firm. He talked about his immigrant parents and how they initially felt guilty about not having the background/connections to help him navigate the legal field. And now that he has gotten where he is, he wants to help other diverse attorneys navigate that space. I still get excited seeing people of my ethnicity succeed in the legal field. But hopefully, with time, there will be so many people like that that it won't feel out of the ordinary anymore. Then maybe we will feel the same way white folks do when there's another white superhero.

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