Is this okay for a guy? Looks feminine, but is it still neutral enough to be used by a guy?

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I have one like this and I get a lot of compliments, but I’m European so I get away with a lot of things. Anyway if you can own it, go for it! Yeah some cowboys from Texas would say it’s not manly enough, but is it the crowd you’re hanging out with? Also you’ll get lots of compliments from women so 🤷🏻‍♂️

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At the end of the day, if it fits your vibe just get it. Otherwise, general rule of thumb for me is, if i don’t love it (and I just like it), then I don’t buy it.

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Did anyone else instinctive try to tap the photo to get different views of the bag or has it just been a rough week for me?

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Yep, tried to swipe left & got all confused...
Like the bag OP, you do you!

if you like it go for it!!

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Does it have a separate compartment for a purse?

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That’s a no for me dawg

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Definitely from the lady’s dept but who are we to tell you how to live?

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It’s 2019 man- do what you want

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Felt like I owe you folks an update. Went with this today. Their black Friday "sale" is donating all sales to conservation.org; felt like a win-win. ::Please note, this is a STATIC photo. Don't try to swipe...lol::

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What brand?

I don't think I have it in me to ever love a bag. Just don't want to make a fool out of myself. That, and I need a new one because there are holes on my current bag.

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Find a nice leather bag

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If you’re thin/rakish I think this can look really masculine ... a nice touch of style.

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Depends. What city do you live in/where do you travel a lot to? By today’s standards it’s pretty flexible. By conservative standards, the handle is a little feminine (curved style is feminine while men’s bags have more boxy cut handles).

no...

I like it.

Watch Friends episode "The One With Joeys Bag" and see what would happen.

Haha jk It looks fine and professional. Youll be fine.

Break the social mold. Get it

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I like it. I have a similar one. Nothing feminine about it. Many have liked it.

Its feminine

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