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The silence on this thread is point #1. You are not expected to share your problems with others and suffer in silence

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This true on so many levels.

Pressure to do well in their careers at all times. You can't take a break in between or go on a sabbatical.
Must pursue only those courses which are job-oriented. Meanwhile, it's okay for ladies to pursue studies into arts, social sciences, pure sciences and then go on to further do doctorate/post doc etc. However, when it comes to choosing a partner, the guy must only belong to certain professions with a salary figure above certain no of digits. So much for gender equality!

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There are a lot of social obligations and pressures for males, but I don't think sharing them on this platform will do any good. Expecting that our problems will be understood by some people of a specific gender in itself is living in a fools paradise. Problems related to men will be understood by men. One ex - when a male has to marry it is always expected from a male that his salary shld atleast be thrice of what a girl earns, and equality is what they shout and houl about.

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Yeah. I understand there is some logic from parents point of view related to security, which is untrue actually.
I get surprised when girls demand the same. It's not like you are somewhere at another planet. You are in the same field, you know how things work, and yet you have audacity to expect x amount of your salary.

And even if this logic hold true, what does the *other half* is bringing to the table ?
1. They don't want to leave the job, because they want to be independent financially. (Then why to expect x times salary from potential husband)
2. They don't want to cook, because no time left and why should *I* cook ? Or do any other household chores for that matter. Why can't he do it ?

Just running under pseudo feminism and based on what has happened between some another couple etc.

This will make things worse eventually.
I don't want to make this argument he vs she.
Earlier men were not supportive and cooperative as they are now. So they will help you in all aspects if you decide it beforehand.
But, this needs to be communicated well. Rather than expecting everything from the other side. This is true for both genders.

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I've gotten used to suffering in silence.

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I agree with author.
C1 - I knw nothing will happen but you will have some weight off your chest if you share

Love and support provided to men is completely conditional.

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Completely agree! A man is always loved under a condition that he should always provide, even after he dies.

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