My in-law’s family is the vacation type that wakes up at 6am to line up at Disney before it opens and runs (actually sprints) to rides before the lines build up. They will get annoyed if you don’t keep up and do this for other vacations outside of Disney.

Am I the only one that finds this type of vacationing miserable?

I’m on vacation, I want to sleep in a bit and take my time.

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I am 100% with you! That's why they say to always have that "travel talk" before you travel with someone. You want to see if your definition of vacation aligns with theirs. If it doesn't, you'll both end up feeling frustrated and Discontent.

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You need to do things to create separation that makes it clear that you don't always need to be and don't intend to be on their timeline. It's your vacation too.

When they tell you that they're all going to meet at 6 AM to line up at the gate, have your partner tell them that you guys are going to grab brunch and then meet them. Plan little things to break away to make them feel like you're not theirs to control.

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Disney is a worthless vacation, but I am that person for everything else. Up at 6 to be on the hiking trail first thing, at the museum when it opens. Vacations are to see and do as much as possible. If you want to sit and lay about all day, stay home or waste money on an all inclusive

I prefer a balance of the two, I hate sitting around all day just as much as I hate jam packed schedules.

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