My wife is trying to launch her own business and has been working so hard while balancing parenting at the same time. There have been some hurdles with getting things off the ground, and I can tell it’s really shaken her confidence. How do I encourage her and show her she is totally capable, when the business she is running is something I know absolutely nothing about? I feel helpless, but really want her to be successful. I’m always encouraging her, but I don’t feel like I’m getting through.

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Celebrate the wins and all that she has overcome up to this point. Offer to help her think through the issues and which to prioritize for solving so that the ball keeps moving forward. It’s a process - positive momentum builds confidence.

Without knowing anything about the parenting side of it (so don’t take this as a criticism) - you could offer to pick up more on that front to let her focus on her business.

Not knowing anything about her business - do some research and educate yourself so that you can take a more active role in the process if that’s something she might appreciate.

This bit is very dependent upon personality, but I’ve learned to strike a balance with support and a good ol’ “hey…you got this!” and then leaving my wife to do her thing when she hits a snag with her business.

If you’re proud of the work she has done, make sure you tell her that (if you haven’t already). It takes guts to start something from scratch (and commit to it), so…kudos to her!

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Learn about her business area, then listen when she needs to talk. Don’t solve, don’t fix, don’t advise- just listen.

When she wants your opinion she’ll ask for it. Just having someone in her corner who understands and is a good listener will be unbelievably stress reducing for her.

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Watch shark tanks. Plenty of successful stories with similar pains.

Encouragement is good, but helping her is critical. Divvy up the responsibilities to make it manageable for both. You are equal partners in raising your children. Clear roles, clear focus and effort for each of you

Echo celebrating wins when they arise. All of us tend to negate our own accomplishments; it’s helpful to have someone else point them out

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