Not Advertising relate but affecting my current health.
Is it normal to break it off with someone you’ve been seeing and talking to where everything else in your lives aligns solely for ‘sexual compatibility’ after experiencing intimacy for the first time with one another?

In my experience that’s something that evolves as you learn about each other, not an automatic professional on the first time with someone.

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I’m sorry I want to help but your language confused me, are you saying you align on a bunch of things but not really sex and you’re asking if it makes sense to break up with this person since you’re not compatible in that area very much (although you are very much in other areas)?

Yes agree, normal would be to break up in person even in these COVID days. I advise you moving forward to avoid these 3 to 6 hour sessions. It ain’t therapy and you’re not married or into a 5 year relationship. A lot spills out of us in that time and best to reveal who you are slowly. Ultimately when the other person goes home or the call ends their head is swimming with info, new neuroses discovered, difficulties never encountered, maybe even opinions not appreciated. All of this mostly melts away when 2 people are in love but otherwise it’s a therapy hangover - could easily cause a person to snap or pull back in a moment of doubt. Not that it’s nice what happened but good to keep in mind.

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