Posting it here as I’m not really sure where else. I am stepping into a marriage where my fiancé has a house she basically owns. Worth 800k, $1.3 million dollars in a investment portfolio and education accounts set up for future kids. This is all coming from her grandparents inheritance which she didn’t get in till later in life so grew up pretty regular. I make decent money three years into consulting 125k but grew up middle class. Worked since i was 16, had to take out student loans….

Closing on my first home. Advice for anyone with student loans in administrative forbearance per the Cares act: once your offer is accepted have you student loan servicer put your account back in repayment status.

Accounts in forbearance, even administrative forbearance, are calculated at a higher monthly payment by the underwriter.

My fictitious debt to income ratio was too high for them to approve me, and it took seven days for my loan to be officially back in repayment. So just a heads up.

When, or if you set time aside to take care of yourself or do something for yourself, what do you do? I'm realizing I don't really have any "healthy" ways of relaxing outside of work, so drop whatever you got. It's starting to affect my personal life and I'm worried I won't be able to have healthy relationships unless I can take care of myself first.

Does anyone have any good self created templates they’re willing to share for use in the context of stock option planning?

Hey 🐠, having a rough day today. Worked a 13 hour day, going through a divorce, and had never felt so empty before. Days like these make me wonder what am I truly living for.

I’m currently an LLC and looking to assemble an equity deal with an advisor. I don’t know how to set it up with him where he gets his equity in the future when we restructure the entity to a c/s Corp and give out his shares. It doesn’t make sense for us to switch now and get double taxed when we haven’t lifted off the ground. This is pre launch. Any advice?

Does anyone know about the difference between PepsiCo GBS and India holdings?

Just found out my boyfriend of 3 months (talking stage was about 6 months before making it official) slept with his ex a couple times while we were talking. After we agreed to be exclusive. Without protection. I’m so crushed 😞

Just checked my credit score and it’s an 835. Is it possible to ever get an 850? If so how? (Know it’s not impacting any of my loans, just curious)

Qualified Dividends: I’m expecting $650-$750 qualified dividend in 2021. Salary and base about $250 total. Questions: what tax rate will the qualified dividend be taxed at? The 15% or 20%? Also, since it’s technically a long term gain, do I have to pay an state and local on the income? Been reading for a bit and I can’t seem to find a clear answer. Thanks fishies!

I’m graduating in a year. Will be working as a consultant in Chicago. Want to begin real estate investing. Thinking of house hacking. what’s the best way to start REI after graduating?

About to apply for an apt that’s asking for a $2000 good faith deposit. I’m still a little undecided about the apartment (I have another option in Jersey) Do I wait it out or just go ahead & apply? Honestly don’t know if I’ll feel 100% sure any time soon. First time living in NY & first time renting post college😭😭

In case anyone needs help with their Tax returns, please feel free to DM me.

Need 20lakh by next year for down payment have 1.8 L on hand which MF or stocks to invest so that can get 20L by next year and how much per month

I’ve 90 min for ELA & 6 kids. I need to teach phonics, curriculum (has 0 phonics), & goals & they need freq. breaks. Admin’s making me use said curric. Any ideas?? Small groups and rotate? TIA!

I work with a classroom of Middle School ED students. One student, who I worked with the year before, has changed alot over the year. Last year (pre COVID), she had a good head on her shoulders and I thought I had good rapor with her. But over that period of isolation, she tried to commit suicide.

All year, she was much more withdrawn and ALWAYS on her phone! At the end of the I was 'beat up by her - she really knocked my glasses off.

How should I approach her in the upcoming year?

Roth vs Traditional 401k, thoughts?

Looking for a great realtor with knowledge of East Austin. Any recs?

Need some advice on renting here in ATX.

Back in May 2021, I rented a property that had sustained damage during the big snow storm. This wasn't disclosed at lease signing. The home leaked every time it rained, mold was found in the home & the LL failed to make repairs that resulted in me falling down a flight of stairs. I moved out& rented an apt for 2 mos before signing a lease on the house I live in now. This house has a serious big problem& I've found mold here too. Continued below

My aunt recently passed away, leaving behind 2 young girls (16 and 12 years old). I’m trying my best to be there for them and pray for them, and have been asking people to pray for them as well. Until I started question what is the point of asking people to pray for them? I know God hears my prayers, so why do we ask people to pray ?

I love Instagram, I really do! But sometimes I feel that as a creative the thought of "sticking" to an aesthetic makes me cringe! I feel that art & inspo should be free flowing - not confined to a box

I am asked about salary expectation for Senior Devops Engineer role in Berlin, Germany.
What should be the expectation.
I am currently at INR 30 LPA in Bangalore.
Thanks.

What are benefits we get when we join Nokia Noida office in sec 62. I have got an offer from Nokia.

Any openings for manual/automation testing at Bosch

Hi how do we avail gym facilities in bosch

Is advertising/corporate production a feasible way to get into scripted tv production? Is there a better path?

Anyone on the IndieList. How are you finding it?

How much does Slalom PAD or CSP make in Midwest region? Also what’s a YOY % increase? Does it come close to MD salary band

Is it worth the rent to stay in west village socially? Or just stay in exchange place in jersey and commute to midtown?

3 years in this apartment without any pests or bugs..2 months before I move out I wake up to a mouse freaking out in one of my bags. I grab the top of the bag and walk it out.. as I’m walking it out I see a mouse that looked just like the one I saw in my bag run past me. Not sure how it would’ve gotten out but I’m so grossed out rn and confused as how it got in 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Favorite TED talks? Medical or otherwise

The best thing about being stationed abroad was that I got to meet new cultures I never thought I’d see.

For people who post links to news first - how do you do it? I send stuff to people and they're like oh saw that, and it was two hours ago...

How long is the interview process at CBA? How many rounds of interview for senior poaitions like senior technology businee analyst or Product Owner?
Any feedback on work culture

@CBA

How many rounds do Tech Mahindra conduct for 3+ Years of experience in Automation testing ?

Hi fishes,
Anyone have hybris knowledge based on java springboot. Please let me know.

Have a presentation in front of a large group tomorrow and it's giving me anxiety. Will taking a Xanax help?

All at deloitte. Global call this Tuesday at 9am est. ping me if interested in joining

What books have you read recently that have dramatically shifted your understanding of who God is?

Hi everyone! I am planning a convention for my church and I want to get customized gifts for the attendees. If you know anyone who does customized things (mugs, notebooks, etc), can you share their instagram/facebook page here?

My aunt recently passed away, leaving behind 2 young girls (16 and 12 years old). I’m trying my best to be there for them and pray for them, and have been asking people to pray for them as well. Until I started question what is the point of asking people to pray for them? I know God hears my prayers, so why do we ask people to pray ?

Any recommendations for a church in Manhattan or easy commute from Midtown Manhattan? I live in Kips Bay and new to the States. Honestly, I know if it is too far away, I won’t consistently attend.

We should really get a virtual consultants bible study together, atleast through the midst of this.

Looking for encouragement/ inspirational books for my teenage (14) nephew 🙏🏾☀️

Lifting you all up in prayer as this new week begins. Peace for burdens, sharpened discernment at work, and Gods love and favor from the tops of your head to the soles of your feet. 💓

What an incredible gift to be alive today knowing that we are free and complete by the power of Christ! Happy Saturday

Can I pray for someone this evening?

Does anyone know if Timothy Keller is still preaching in NYC? Otherwise church recommendation for NyC ? Will be flying in from Europe so evening service would be great !

Let's start a weekly prayer request thread. Even if we're anonymous to each other, I'd love to have a chance to pray for others since I struggle with that

What are your thoughts on how faith should affect your work?

I need advice. I'm a non-denominational, pretty moderate Christian. My parents are loving people, but also very evangelical and Trump-endorsing. It's a struggle dealing with their black / white views.

I pray everyone is settled in this trying time. I hope we maintain faith in God WHILE using His Wisdom at the same time. Remember we should not walk in fear/ paranoia. Take the proper precautions

How does anyone keep time well for prayer and meditation while fully giving yourself to family and work in this economy?

One can imagine work here as meant in the maximum of work vs life here.

I know people who are constantly crashing and that’s without the set time for prayer. And despite hearts or gold, obvious piety and a high work ethic.