SO I have been dating for couple months doesn’t have friends and wants to hang out all the time, is this a red flag?

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Or he is really fond of you and enjoys your company?

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Yes & no, I find making friends as an “adult” pretty difficult (I’m pretty awkward & work colleagues don’t count) but do they have friends from home/college? If they don’t have friends from there, yes

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So he is able to make friends which is good, but do agree the co-dependence is a bit concerning. Maybe suggest he signs up for adult softball,pickle ball, group activities so that way he branches out a bit more! If he goes to the gym consistently, I know people start recognizing each other and create friends that way!

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Smaller circle of friends vs no friends or just having superficial relationship is a red flag.

Definitely a red flag, but not a deal breaker.

Other things like having close relationships with family instead of friends and whether or not they expect you to spend all your free time with them and push your friendships aside are considerations.

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