Someone in my close group is having home warming ceremony soon. They invited another friend for the occasion excluding their SO simply based on the fact that the SO is non desi and follows different religion. I badly need new set of friends!!

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I wonder how they even said it. Like “please come my house warning but don’t bring your SO?”

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No idea M1. Can’t even imagine.

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Kindof strange…are they married? I mean the only time I could imagine doing something like that is if I haven’t met my friend’s SO and they aren’t married, I probably wouldn’t invite to a wedding because it’s like 30 dollars per plate 😂

Wtf is wrong with people??

Haha they just dont know any better people! Dont hate educate 😂

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