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Student asked a question about my personal life that I deflected. Now I'm wondering...should teachers have a stock answer for prying students, or does it depend?

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If I don’t feel comfortable answering, I tell them that is my personal feelings and I don’t want to share that with them. If pushed for more of an answer, I’ll say that it is none of their business and leave it

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I reveal things from my personal life, it’s called ‘joining’. Since the majority of my caseload (school social worker) is boys, I tell them about my kids and might say something like, why would you think I’d ever let you play on your chromebook during lunch if I wouldn’t let my own sons play games or use their laptop during their lunch at home…No, I’m certainly not going to let you so let it go.

I use it in my work as a social worker if that makes sense.

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