They say Deloitte is so hard to get into but I’ve literally only met Deloitte people through dating apps. Is there an explicit app for all other firms or something?

39M in West LA, looking to meet someone for drinks and see where things go! (Never married, no kids)

Kinda bummed. I’ve been single for 6 years (I’m 31 now). I live in ptown and talk to guys in Boston on tinder. Was talking to a guy for about a week who is my type. I asked if he wanted to FaceTime tonight and he said sure but caveated that he isn’t into long distance (ptown to Boston) and that we would most likely stick to chatting. Idk what’s wrong with me. Everyone tells me I’m a catch but guys I’m attracted to are never into me 😭 just needed to vent

The only reason I ever pursued casual sex (a couple times when I was 17-19) was to not get my heart broken. It always sucked and was so boring. I don’t understand when people say they want sex with no emotions. It’s the best part.

Is it irrational for me to get an “ick” for this?

I went on a “date” recently. I paid for the tab as they were going to the bathroom. As we were leaving they said “thanks for lunch” — I was hoping they’d at least ask to Venmo me half as a kind gesture. Following lunch we grabbed dessert. I was hoping they’d offer to cover dessert since I covered lunch but it didn’t happen.

I am fine w/ paying but I was hoping the gesture would at least be presented… am I crazy?

Any F fishes want to hang out at the dock and go boating over the weekend?

Men - do you try to get out of an argument/fight by pretending like nothing happened? Why so?

30M here, up for a chat

Brand new single post divorce. Was with ex almost 18 years and never dated as an adult. What the hell am I in for? 35f.

When you're on a date and you say what you do...what are the reactions?

I recently asked everyone’s age filters on dating apps and there were some mentions of fear of baggage and that’s why you don’t date older than X. What baggage are you afraid of? Ex spouses? Kids from prior relationships? What is it?

Girl I went on a date with talked about how much money she makes doing Monat MLM. Anyone know much about this? Legit or scam?

These dating apps. ARGH! Someone “likes” you (takes the time to do that) then never messages you back. I don’t understand.

Who wants to go boating with me some time?

Dating my guy for 6 months now and he’s just such a lovely soul but I’m not physically attracted, there’s no spark and I’m afraid to let go but also afraid to keep holding on..

Deeply afraid of being married to someone like the girl in sex/life on Netflix

Bored on a Sunday night, any female fish feel like chatting

Any tips for hard launching partners on social media? For context, I’ve (Indian American female) been dating my white American boyfriend for 3 years and we just got engaged after two years of convincing my parents. They are very happy and excited now, but I’m scared shitless about being ostracized / judged by my extended family and Indian community in the US once I “let the cat out of the bag” on the engagement news. I want to be proud and confident about this but could use some moral support.

Started talking to this guy through group a group telegram and one day he offered to pay for my lunch as I had helped him out with something. Since then he has been offering to pay for my dinners, salon visits, shopping etc and I have accepted 3-4 times. I am in a steady relationship and my boyfriend doesn’t know about this. The other guy just says he likes paying for my stuff and there’s no agenda. Is this a little weird?

LuckeYou in NYC. They talked me into accepting 3/4 my hourly rate. Dragged their feet about "letting" me invoice bc client killed the project. THEN took nearly FOUR to pay me...

How do you frame your specialty as a designer?

Trying to emphasize a level of specialization without shutting out too many opportunities.

Curious how far others niche down how they present themselves.

Looking to book one night at a Marriott property in chicago to celebrate anniversary with my wife - mostly deciding between the Gwen and the Ritz. Which would you choose? (Assume price doesn’t matter)

Do citi bank risk team send their colleagues to US for projects? What is the criteria for going to US ??

I work as a worker’s compensation adjuster and I cannot seem to get the hand of loss of time. Been in the same role for a year. Any piece of advise? I have made several improvements but it feels like I’m dragging it out. Last question is how do you manage claims that you have not handle for months and you’re too scared to do anything.

Just made a career pivot and accepted a job with Progressive in sales. I’ve heard more good things than bad about the company. I turned down Liberty and Allstate so I’m hoping I made the right choice. Curious if anyone works there can offer their opinion about what it’s like working for Progressive.

Truth Time: Was Copywriting Your FIRST Career Choice?

Currently have a secret clearance and looking for new job opp. Any leads?

Taking the NY bar for the first time. Is it fine to take it from the work laptop because personal laptop seems to be giving up in life! Please guide any pros or cons. Thanks !

Hey guys,

is it safe to move to healthcare organization which is established in India only 2 years ago, but in US it was established around 160+ years ago, keeping in mind on recession and job security?

Please help me on this!!!


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Hello all, I am a production manager for a sign design and manufacturing company. I have been with the company for six years now starting as lead graphic designer working my way to the production manager. since becoming the production manager two years ago I am responsible for 4 large format printers and 1 vinyl plotter. I’m wearing too many hats but I love what I do. I would love to be a remote graphic designer but I don’t know where to start. Any suggestions?

How much variable pay is expected to be paid (and when) if I join SAP in June

Have you ever been injured at work? I feel like our jobs are so high risk!

There are advisors who present themselves as a financial planner first and investment manager second. Which one are you?

Fi-nance or Fin-nance?

Why do people ping total strangers “hi” with zero context and expect a response? Just odd

No matter how sour or great your work tenure was, when you are close to your end date and handing over your badge etc on your last working day you feel extremely sad. EY is a great company (contd)

Is anyone here traveling M-Th for client work? If so, what is your company policy especially with the Omicron variant? I have no choice but to travel and think my company should pay for weekly testing. Is that fair to ask? Thoughts?

Can you share your meeting preparation process or tips with me? Recently promoted to SC and finding that I need to really plan out meetings more than I did as a C. Thanks!

Anyone else obsessed with the Westin white tea line? 😅

Is Grammarly premium worth it? Anyone have experience with it?

Found out today I got accepted into a Professional MBA program that I was seriously doubting I’d get into 😃😃😃 maybe it wasn’t such a Monday after all

Do internships look good on a resume after 5 YOE? Just a liner under ‘education’ mentioning it not going into detail

Any book recommendations about human psychology / thought processes?

So how does priority baggage claim work? I just waited for half an hour at the carousel and someone walked up and handed my baggage to me. Was I supposed t omelet her somewhere? This is American

Do any of the top consulting firms hire into the Engagement Manager level after an M7 (if they had manager experience elsewhere)? I know MBB probably doesn’t but what about other tier 2 firms after that - and asking for US or Canada

So many are getting onboarded into d usi nowadays, I'm worried how is going to be the quality of work (if would be more of the witch stuff kinda works). I let go 2 lakh INR more fixed pay for Deloitte but I'm feeling if I made a mistake now 😥😥😥😥😥.All Ur thoughts pls..

Looking for book recommendations; any favorites? Interested in both fiction and educational/self-improvement (for example, investment / finance books, time management, etc). I feel my vocab is...

What are the best consulting firms in the capital markets and/or investments world?

Best consulting firms (including boutiques) if you want to do product design/development

Hello! I’m going to BSchool in August. Any recommendations on books / websites / videos to be more prepared for management consulting interviews?

Confronted client today about partner forcing us to travel while client site has travel restrictions. As a result is team is remote next week. Counting down days till I get rolled off/fired now lol

Stay at big D or move back to my village back home in Pakistan?

All I want to do is curl up in bed with hot tea and a good book. Recommendations for if I ever achieve said dream?