What are some red flags in a relationship that you should absolutely not ignore?

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Excessive clingyness and refusal to allow you to do things without them.

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Being rude or disrespectful towards service employees. I understand being critical of the service and communicating your displeasure, and think that feedback loop is needed. However, there’s a difference between that and being mean. Also, sometimes it is either completely out of their control or is due to someone else.

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Excessive drinking/drug use

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Lying about little stuff = red flag

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Being mean to service industry workers

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Treating you different in private vs around their friends

Inflicting self harm, long rap sheet (ex-partners), when you momma and friends say there’s something not quite right about her, they’re probably on to something. And yes, all these are based on experience.

Ah yes. After I was divorced my parents confided in me they didn’t care for my ex since the birth of our first child. Some deep seated narcissism they saw in her that I was blind to until going through months of therapy.

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Coming from a family of immigrants and being one yourself, does anyone ever feel a sense of guilt with your success/salary versus your family members? If so, how have you dealt with this? Any suggestions on how to deal with it internally and emotionally?

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Guys, just want to hear your opinion on something/ what a guy would think ): my husband and I rarely argue but we recently have argued a lot more for little things. (See comment)

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Have you ever been or currently in a relationship with someone of who’s political beliefs conflict with your own?

Not dealing with this currently have dealt with it in the past. My parents started out opposites but now believe similarly. I’m wondering if it is possible in this day and age.

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This bowl has been quiet and I see partners commenting on odd posts around fishbowl so I figure you need more fodder: partners, did any of you have parents that travelled as much as you do?

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Any books that you found very helpful to read as expecting parents? We’re just nine weeks along, but would love to start preparing however we can!

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What are some myths you all have heard to figure out if you’re having a boy or girl?

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Dads with older children: while raising your children, did your children prefer their moms over you? I know some will prefer dads over moms, but I assume majority of children out there will prefer their moms over dads… I have one child and it kinda hurts to see my child always preferring the mom over me. I know I shouldn’t feel this way, but I just do. How did you cope with such issue raising your children?

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Partner of 2 years has asked for space. No contact for a month but agreed to go to couples therapy then. This after a really hard month relationally and then she had to put her dog down. Asked for..

Am I crazy or do women take pride in saying “my boyfriend/husband makes twice as much as me” or similar statements

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This question may not be related. However I wanted to know from personal and family point of view how it is like to relocate from India and live abroad .
Let's say Family consists of husband , wife and a kid . I understand we will get good facilities, education, cleanliness , good air etc , however I wanted to check whether people gel up easily in the new environment? Don't they feel loneliness/ difficult to adjust? Do they look for similar asian nationalities to kill boredom?

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How can I make friends in Chicago?

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What is your favorite parent communication tool and why? I used Seesaw this last year and it worked fine, but I’m considering checking out class dojo. Thoughts?

Everyone likes me because I'm a doormat with no boundaries. I do anything and say anything to make people happy. I will think what you think I should think. Will you be my friend?

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Hi i lost majority of my money in the stock market. I married and promised my family that I will not make the mistake I made 7 years ago. Gambling. Is this an addiction I have. I keep selling stocks and taking loses buying other stock hoping it will recover but never did and sell again taking loses and buy again. It now sink in to me. I borrow personal loan hoping that the market will do k and I pay it back but I even lost that. I can't stop crying that I hurt the one I love the most my family.

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Have you walked away from somebody you loved? And why?

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What do we think the firms can to support our trans brothers and sisters?

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My Dad and brother didn’t even text me happy birthday 😔

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Anyone else struggling with hormones / mood swings? I am almost 16 weeks and been having a real tough time lately, feeling really down and stressed about things. Sadly, causing tension between me and my partner as well as he cannot relate and seems preoccupied with business as usual. Trying to get out the funk and just telling myself it’s all the hormones.

When, or if you set time aside to take care of yourself or do something for yourself, what do you do? I'm realizing I don't really have any "healthy" ways of relaxing outside of work, so drop whatever you got. It's starting to affect my personal life and I'm worried I won't be able to have healthy relationships unless I can take care of myself first.

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I'm a US citizen living abroad I applied almost 11 months ago for my spouse. Married for years, kid. I wait and wait. It seems this will take 2 years, maybe more. I feel trapped. On one side the US system demands I work and domicile in US, the other side says families should be prioritized to stay together. My spouse has had enough of the process. I feel trapped abroad and locked in a dysfunctional system. We're just in limbo, it's depressing

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Does anyone have recommendations for free or free trial media planning resources that would be helpful to use/reference for a student project?

Thoughts on Centron?

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I have another offer from IBM of 19
Virtusa giving 24 lpa
Choosing virtusa is over IBM good or not?

Is Accenture hiring is freezed, because my application for the Analyst -Reporting (CID:- C7303041) is not going further.
Any help would be appreciated
Accenture Accenture India

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Hilton has the worst rewards program.

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Inspired by one of my kids' favorite books, I penned this masterpiece of an Ode to Consulting:

One senior partner all alone
Calls two managing directors on the phone
Three associate partners at the door
Bring along another four
Five senior managers come overdressed
Six managers show up with a guest
Seven senior consultants arrive in a sack
Eight associates sneak in the back
Nine analysts come to work
ALL THE CONSULTANTS GO BERSERK!!!

Ok, I'll show myself out now... 😂

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Are Analysts expected to travel while working for the consulting practise at Deloitte India? How often is one staffed on/rotated across projects?

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What are the bgv docs required in cgi?

Any recommendations for a day date dress watch under 5K? Going to be my daily beater.

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Any one knows what’s the easiest way to order a radon test for new construction?

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Nagarro car rental
Hi Nagarrians, Can I give an account number of a different person and the bill/ RC of other?
I don't want to give the account number of same person of whose RC I have given..

Please help out a newbie here.
TIA

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My portfolio literally went up 15 pc in the past 2 hours

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When amd how to submit Medical report aa virtual joining is there. Medical certificate is one of mandatory document from TCS at the timw of joining

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Does TCS offer stock as part of bonus ?
Can employees (associates) purchase TCS stock?

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Hi guys, does anyone know whether IBS software provide wfh?

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Can anyone please help me understand what are the roles and responsibilities of a Principal Business Analyst and how is this role different from Senior Business Analyst? Also, would appreciate tips to crack the Principal Business Analyst interview. Thank you

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Has anyone ever messed up at a company party because of alcohol?

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Sooooo when MBB says cover letters are optional, I should still write one right? They’re “optional”? Just hate cover letters 😫

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I hate due diligence requests. Every time my email notification pings I want to cry. I’m already going as fast as I can.

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What random skills do you possess that can help during the pandemic? I'll go first-

I can make soap, beer and mead from home. Im gonna be drunk and clean!

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Am I the only who’s embarrassed when someone asks what do i do? Im an auditor btw

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Do you get your mom's flowers for Valentine's day? My mom is single, so I thought it might be a nice gesture

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Graduated college 6 months ago and just been working since. I’ve been living in my city for almost 20 years now and want a different change of scenery. Any advice from people who moved west coast to East coast. I’ve been interested working in Chicago or New York

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Anyone witnessed these protests first hand?

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I don't know who needs to hear this, but it's a bad idea to bite your fingernails if you're already chewing gum.

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Does anyone ever feel like they need a hug after a long day of working?

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Why do people not respond to calendar invites? Come on now we can do better🙃

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I had a sex dream about my senior, but I have a boyfriend. Am I terrible? Has this happen to anyone else?

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My Dad and brother didn’t even text me happy birthday 😔

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Looking for a Christmas present for my girlfriend. Would like to stay under $250 (I’m a 1st year staff shes in grad school so don’t have much money). She likes gold — I’m thinking of getting her a necklace, which I believe I can only get gold plated in my price range. Does anyone have any suggestions of good brands to buy? First time looking at jewelry websites and they seem kinda gimmicky and would like one I can trust and get good quality. Thank you!

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Praying no one brings up the election in our team meeting today.

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My gpa fell to a 3.0. I was working multiple jobs in college and had one really bad semester due to a traumatic event I went through. What are the chances the firm revokes my offer during a pandemic?

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Any of you auditors have pick up lines? Matched with a hot auditor guy and want to slide in

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Thoughts on Candace Owen’s video today?

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Looking for a dark walnut wood desk top. Ikea karlby is no longer being manufactured. Willing to spend up to ~350ish... any leads would be greatly appreciated. Also, post your current desk set up for some ideas 😬 thanks!

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Everyone in my firm try so hard to be politically correct😍feel so included.

Any cat owners experience hot spots? My cat has been getting them 2-3 times a year for 2 years now and I'm worried there's an underlying cause

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Can I sue a company for posting my address on social media (cont’d)

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