Why my black people why? I started my new job about year ago and I do like it alot . I do get to work with many different people from various departments which has its ups and downs like everywhere else. Why is it that every single person that has shown me "attitude " is a black person/female. I deal with fake and phone people everyday but black women are the worst and give you attitude . Just trying to do my job , get a paycheck and go home. Keep your attitude in check please.

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Not all black people/black women act nor think the same. So, what’s the common denominator here? 🤔 Maybe being more introspective and aware of how people interpret your behavior/words/tone would be beneficial.

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I clearly hit a nerve. Lol. Oh well.

Interesting.

Generally, you get what you give.

Yes. . I have spoken to other folks in the department and they also agree. Funny thing , I am black as well which makes it hurts more :)

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