Would you marry a man with ED if he was perfect otherwise?

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Would depend on his attitude about it. If the sexual relationship is strained because of it, then no. But, if we take a team approach, he knows he’s not alone, and we’re able to enjoy that special time together then it wouldn’t be an issue.

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Experiencing that right now. It’s been a little rough because he has been dealing with it ever since we started dating. But I’ve never felt so emotionally close to a man like I do with him.

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Now this is a dealbreaker I didn’t know I had until now. No I would not.

Something you want to talk about OP? Can't he just pop a couple viagras?

Is this a serious question?

It depends. If the relationship is good otherwise, and he’s not someone that is just going to be angry/upset about it and is willing to try things to help and communicates it, then yes.

"perfect" as in "rich" and "generous"? hell yeah!

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