Would you marry a man with ED if he was perfect otherwise?

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Would depend on his attitude about it. If the sexual relationship is strained because of it, then no. But, if we take a team approach, he knows he’s not alone, and we’re able to enjoy that special time together then it wouldn’t be an issue.

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Experiencing that right now. It’s been a little rough because he has been dealing with it ever since we started dating. But I’ve never felt so emotionally close to a man like I do with him.

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Hard no. Talking from experience.

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Yes hard, soft no..

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I mean, isn’t that the dream? Marry someone crazy rich that’s on death’s door and can’t use his equipment on you in the meantime while you wait him out?

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Yes

Totally thought you meant eating disorder until I read the comments lol

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If his net worth can get me wet

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If I married a man, he would have to have ED. No way around that. Wouldn’t want him getting any ideas.

Straight male here.

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Lesbian here. What is ED?

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You raise me UPPPP so I can stand on mountainsss 🎶🎵🙌🌭🏔️

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Think we are asking the wrong questions..

1. How coachable is he?
2. Is he a giver?
3. How good is he with his is tongue?

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G1 driving to the tough questions.

I’m assuming if he has ED, he looks to contribute in different ways. If not, then it’s a total loss.

Unfortunately. You are stuck between a rock and a soft place.

Yah, I would.

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I dated a guy with ED. “It” didn't work when he was on his depressions medication , but when he was off his meds, he was a nightmare lol it was a lose lose.

Has he tried viagra? 😅

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Was his depression because of the ED?

How is he perfect if he has ED and cannot get his thing up?

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It clearly says "otherwise" in the post.

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Yea

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ED as in eating disorder or erectile dysfunction? I mean yes to both but which one are you referring to

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I keep the opposite problem, can’t keep this thing down. Can get awkward when doing presentations

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Thanks for the advice. Tried and it helps

No

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If it's the kind that doesn't respond to treatment/medication, sorry, no. Been there, done that. I'm not ready to forego sex with my SO forever.

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More than half the male population have some form of ED and the risk goes up when they hit their 40s.

So often do people say how bad it is to be with a man with ED, but no one talks about the large percent of women that experience some type of sexual disfunction like Female Sexual Arousal Disorder.

Work as a team and speak to a medical specialist and work to improve sexual function.

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Depends on how badly you want kids. I’m not sure I would knowingly sign up to need fertility treatments to get pregnant

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I guess it’s curable? Seems like a solve-able technicality.

Well, it’s worth checking that out with a doctor if the other aspects of the relationship are good.

Physical issues can make intimacy impossible, and can be a legit roadblock. But I’m sure big pharma has several options to point the true north here.

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