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Currently a Solutions Consultant at Pegasystems.
I am interviewing at and considering making a jump to Oracle as a Specialist Solutions Consultant.
The reason for my move is currently at Pega SCs are treated more as AEs or Account Managers. The role at Oracle would be more of a true SC position. I also feel that Oracle will look BETTER on a resume and someone as young as me would have BETTER programs in place to train me and give me the foundation needed to be a successful SC.
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No. Absolutely not. The fact that he is still just a "boyfriend" indicates there's a reason for not being something more. If I don't want to commit to a permanent life arrangement with this guy, or he isn't ready to commit to me, then it is definitely one of life's fleeting things. I am not going to uproot my life for someone who could be moving in with some drunken cowgirl from the redneck strip club next week.
I moved for a boyfriend once. I didn’t have any friends or family in the state, it was awful. Eventually I moved back home. It was during Covid so I didn’t miss out on any socializing and it was only for one year. I learned a valuable lesson. I’d think twice before uprooting your life unless you would want to move to that specific city/location if that person wasn’t in the picture.
I would. I hate where we live right now. It'd be nice to get away to a safer city.
Where do you live that you feel it’s unsafe?
No unless you’re engaged
I don't think so. Engaged maybe, married yes....just dating no. I just feel like the couple times I have followed a boyfriend have blown up in my face and here I am single. I don't want to be that girl anymore.
I relocated for my boyfriend after 5 months. This was 9 years ago and we have been married for 6 years.
I'd have a really tough time doing so. All my family and most of my friends are currently within 30 minutes of me. The prospect of packing up and going somewhere new where I wouldn't have that social and support structure would make me really anxious. I guess I probably would for the right person, but I haven't found them yet.
It depends on what city it is, whether I know anyone there, whether I can make a decent living there, and just how serious we are about each other.
I would if we had been dating seriously and about to be engaged