A recruit I know WAS in Internet adult videos. Do I have any responsibility to notify my firm since some may consider this moral turpitude?

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If it's an issue of firm culture I'm not really sure how you would explain how you "know" they were in adult movies? I mean wouldn't firm culture be equally as disapproving of watching adult videos as working in them?

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In the past 11 years since I was in a porn DVD that even got a GayVN award nomination (should make PwC 14 happy), to the best of my knowledge not a single person in my work or personal life has just casually stumbled upon it without my telling them. OP you're only gonna make yourself look bad by calling this out.

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Don't say anything you weirdo.

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Let them be. I'm sure that person is trying to be a young professional now. Instead of knocking them down, help them up

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Fucking narc

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I don't think the firm has a policy against sex workers of any kind as long as they don't have a criminal history etc. Why don't you focus on your own career instead of trying to ruin someone else's?

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Why ruin his/her life/career?

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I have a feeling that the adult video actor would be more popular in the office than OP...

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Mind your own business. No one likes a snitch. You don't get brownie points for knowing about an adult video. If it doesn't effect a persons ability to do their job it shouldn't be brought up. I would honestly just think you're a perv since I'm assuming this person isn't your friend.

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It's in the past. Don't

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Mind yo business

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Save that shit for use later down the line

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Also OP, I hope your bury the fact you know he/she was on an adult video. Don't be that person sharing it

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Could be an independence issue if the publisher is a client

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None of your business.

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Moral turpitude is up to the State and not to you. But let me know what the Partner says after they laugh you off.

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You remind me of D'Angelo Russell. Don't be a snitch and ruin someone else's life/career.

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^^^then they would have disclosed that to independence already.

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Stop being a dickhead. Who cares if she's done porn. Nothing illegal there. The firm will probably push it as empowered woman's initiative.

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I would hate to work with OP

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That's awful, what's the exact site so I can be sure to avoid it.

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