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Generally how many days does it take for offer letter to be released after having discussion with HR.
Whom should we contact if we didn't receive any further information .
I had interview and offer discussion with CTS 6 months back but didn't receive any letter and even this time after interview and hr discussion its been 4 days but no further communication.
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Pro
Maybe it's for her other husband/family? Nothing to worry about. It just shows she's responsible.
Rising Star
I have an investment property in another state that I forget about all the time. Not weird.
Pro
I have so many properties I forget all the time. It makes me feel sad I'm almost never on my yatch but my helicopter is too big to land on it.
Conversation Starter
Ok Director
Rising Star
Are we talking a garage in Siberia or a townhouse in Kensington?
Enthusiast
Isn't that a good thing ?
Chief
She's pretty messy with her financials - that I know. She has a bank account in my home country, and housing is not very expensive there.
Chief
Depend.
My wife doesn’t know or care or keep track of the bank/brokerage accounts we have in our names. I wrote down everything in a piece of paper, and setup all online account pwd mgr and put it in her pwd vaults in case I die unexpectedly.
A bit sketchy and a bit privileged
In what context did she bring it up? Are you both negotiating a prenup?
OP, most marriages that fail have misalignment over finances as a root cause. If you are equally as disorganized in yours, then maybe you’re a good match and this isn’t a big problem.
Me? I track every penny because I have a long term plan. Not knowing if a bank is taking potentially thousands of dollars out of my bank account every month is simply unfathomable and unacceptable.
If this is important to you, I urge you to have a conversation about it, because this could be an indicator of a painful marriage.
Conversation Starter
Uhhh
Are you mad that you’re marrying someone forgetful, or about prenup implications?
If the former, how is this a surprise and also who cares?
If the latter, that’s good for you because the prenup is void if someone doesn’t disclose all their assets hah!
<shudder>
“Oh yeah I forgot to tell you I just spent $10k at Neiman and my friends want to go to Aspen for the weekend so I already bought tickets.”
Rising Star
What country/ethnicity is she from?
Enthusiast
I wouldn’t be too sketched out. My parents from Asia have random properties back home
Not weird out of sight out of mind
Pro
Sometimes I forget I bought myself land on the moon and a square foot of land in Scotland while drunk. Happens to the best of us
Rising Star
“She’s not super rich” so she’s just rich?
Enthusiast
OP - why do you think she is not super rich? Is it because of her spending or?! I know people who are super wealthy but you could never tell because of how they "don't spend" on unnecessary things. They drive regular cars (they can afford any luxurycar), fly economy (can afford to hire private jets), don't own designer things etc.